ok...so i've been with a lot of guys before but this boyfriend i really like. we've been together for a little over a month and we finally had sex for the first time. after it was over i asked him how he thought it was, and he was all quiet at first. so i was like, "what c'mon tell me!" he didn't want to answer and kept looking away and stuff. finally he was like, "it was a lot like throwing a hot dog down a hallway..."
i was heart-broken. what should i do?
2007-02-23 13:09:32 · 16 answers · asked by ccr152 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
damn u hella LOOSE.
2007-02-23 13:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy a first rate schmuck. He's not worth your time. I cant even think of a good enough punishment for this guy and unfortunately you cant take back whats already been done. This is just something you have to live with and hopefully you'll make a better choice the next time this situation rolls around. I'd dump his butt and wouldnt have anything more to do with him. If he was really mature in this relationship he would not have said what he did. I'm sorry you got your heart broken, but know that it wont always be like this. This too shall pass. :)
2007-02-23 21:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you two went a little too fast.
i have read in a mag. like seventeen which talks about it all the time
if you are not ready or if your partner is not ready physically but also emotionally those to two thing can lead to a unhealth relationship. im not saying your relationship is going to go down the drain, just that you have to be the bigger person in your life since "sex" is not included in it and look at all the facts into makeing the right decision.
2007-02-23 21:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by hotchocolate25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do. Is this how you want to be treated.He is a immature child.With no feelings.You have been with a few so don't ever ask was it any good.That should of be shown in how much fun you guys were having.His saying was cruel uncalled for.He was probably
just under in size.So don't worry about it .Wait for someone in your life you want to be with.As that was his way of breaking up with you after. Remember never ask a question unless you want an answer.
2007-02-23 21:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there is not much feelings here. It is better to cool off now and when you meet the right one, the passion will definitely be there. Anyway, don't ask for appraisal of the act if you do not wish to be hurt. You could gauge for yourself how good the intimacy was by his unspoken reaction . Really, take it as an experience and you won't feel so hurt by what he said.
2007-02-23 21:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you asked him . . . and he told you. Not particularly in a nice way, but at least he didn't lie. There's a couple of ways you can handle it ... frankly, I don't know how you are going to get past this. It's kind of obvious he isn't going to enjoy sex with you.
You might say to him, "I'm sorry you felt that way, I can't understand it, all my other boyfriends said I was very tight; But of course they were bigger than you."
2007-02-23 21:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!!
he could have told you it was not his best in a more polite manner without hurting your feelings he is obviously there for sex and that's it if he wasn't then he would be so much more sympathetic, i would also suggest you do some pelvic exercise, and you can also do it during sex which gives variety to it.
2007-02-23 21:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by trudy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him and find someone who has a better sense of humor. You should have told him that his hot dog looked more like a match stem.
2007-02-23 21:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men dont like when you ask questions after sex. You need to ask him what went wrong and what you can do better next time
2007-02-23 21:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by meme0126 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NEVER SEE HIM OR TALK TO HIM AGAIN.
what you should have said back is, "well if you didn't have such a small hot dog the hallway would have seemed much smaller!!!"
2007-02-23 21:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by KRIS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well did u tell him how u felt? u should if u didnt! how old r u??? did u want 2 do it at de first place or jus 2 plez him? if u werent ready dats mayb y...so talk bout it.....best advice i can giv u!
2007-02-23 21:27:36 · answer #11 · answered by prettyloca_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋