I told this girl that I didnt like her and didnt want to talk anymore and now she is taking it very negatively and harassing me on Myspace and we have class at college next Tuesday and Im afraid she might start something. Can anyone tell me how to deal with something like this?
2007-02-23 13:09:00 · 12 answers · asked by maguathehearteater 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It's best if you are firm and assertive, without being vicious. Someone who is passive-aggressive enough to take out her frustrations on MySpace, will be unlikely to start anything with you in person. If she does choose to confront you, just tell her directly that you don't want to talk to her. If she continues, repeat yourself, perhaps a little louder. I know you don't want a scene, but avoiding her will only make your situation worse, and she will use your aversion to causing a scene as leverage.
2007-02-23 20:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by brandihoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you handled this situation wrong. Telling someone outright that you don't like them is a pretty negative thing to do. Now that you have done it try to smooth it over. You may want to let her know that it is not that you really don't like her but it may be that the two of you don't have anything in common to be close friends. Ask her in a nice way to not send the type of emails she is sending. The thing is a person who will harrass anyone is a scary person and you were probably right to try to disconnect from them. But gently would have been the way to do it.
2007-02-23 13:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by papricka w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it rather is tough. you've gotten a severe communicate together with her or write her a letter or digital mail so she wont freak out once you're talking. tell her each little thing. you're so unwell of negativity and your finished with it. She is a huge pal and you like her yet you omit her being happy each and all of the time and not complaining and being rude. you could tell her if she would not provide up bringing you down you prefer to no longer carry out or some thing. Make her remember the way it use to be and how it rather hurts you. Dont be mean only state what your feeling and how it desires to provide up. If it keeps going like this it is going to end badly. She appears like she has some self subject concerns and desires help from a therapist or some thing. i'm getting like that sometimes and it sucks. I could remind myself that it bugs human beings and only makes me unhappy. as quickly as I save complaining, it makes it worse. i desire that enables. Dont permit her deliver you down or be rude. solid luck.
2016-11-25 20:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be nice to them but if that doesn't work, try to ignore them.
I don't know much about MySpace but there should be some sort of ignore option. If there isn't they should make one.
Good luck with the negative person!
2007-02-23 13:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically about all you really can do is try to ignore her. In the future be a little more cautious about blowing people off. You may be dealing with them again soon especially if they're classmates or coworkers.
2007-02-23 20:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are in a big mess I suggest you change Colleges or times when you have this class also change your myspace hay and never deal with her in anyway at all!
Contact me and tell me why you have chosen not to deal with this female!
2007-02-23 13:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by wise 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try your best to 'laugh her of'
which means when you see her smile and keep walking
don't try to explain yourself to her (it won't do any good)---just let her talk and talk and talk
keep a few things in mind---she is the one with the problems
you have the right not to like her---and she can only start something if you choose to drop to her level
good luck
2007-02-23 13:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by littleheadcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be calm go late so you don't have to sit next to her.
Perhaps behind out of her view.
2007-02-23 13:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by FOA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the bigger and better person and when she starts badmouthin' you say thats why i didn't want to talk to you or you tell people b/c she blah blah blah and i tried to reason w/ her (if you did)
2007-02-23 13:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by yukonSLT3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.... live an learn. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Don't warn people how you feel about them.
2007-02-23 13:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋