Should I just tell her How I feel about her??or will it ruin our friendship if she dosen't feel the same way?

Question

I really like this girl that I've known for about a year now, and we talk every once in awhile and we used to hang out a lot and we always had a good time. she knows I like her because I sent flowers to her school, but should I just tell her the next time we talk on the phone and tell her, how I feel about her? I really like her but I don't want to ruin our friendship if she dosen't like me more than a friend. What should I say to her when/if we talk again? I would tell her in person but I don't know when I will see her again.

Thanks

Answer 1

Maybe bring it up in a causal way on how she feels about you. If you know how she feels about you, you can based your decision on it. Good luck. :)

Answer 2

Just simply tell her exactly how you feel. Tell her it's OK if she doesn't feel the same way, and that you hope this won't affect your friendship in any way. She should respect your feelings and if she doesn't feel the same if she's really a good friend it won't ruin the relationship. Keeping your feelings in might do more harm then letting them out! Good luck!

Answer 3

well how do you feel? do you think that she likes you? a man can always tell if a woman likes hime or not. but what I would do is probably ask her on a date. tell her , say her name and say, would you like to go out on a date? and see what she says. take her out to dinner, and see what develops from it. don't wait too long to start getting intimate with her since you've been going out together for a year already.

Answer 4

i like to take the 'wat if' question off ma chest.....u wouldn't want to live the rest of ur life wondering wat if i told her...wat if!...trust me u're better off tellin her, if she's a true friend then the worst that can happen is remainin friends when did fallin for ur friend become a crime.....