the guy that likes me is getting worst.. he's now stocking me & now saying i selpt w/ him (i didnt) i am so mad. im not sure if he actually said that i slept with him but someone told me so. i almost cried. luckily no one believes him & they dont know its me & i know hes stocking me because he knows were i meet my friends during brunch and during bruch i walked right by him pretending i didnt see him & then when i sat at the table he sat at a table behind me & he was pretending to read but really was looking at me (i could see him threw the corner of my eye) & then a person blocked him from seeing me & he started to walk by my table.
my friends said i should report him to the dean & i think i will if he keeps it up.. i plan on giving him a letter because he keeps on ruining my day
i havent told my mom about this do you think i should?
i first want to ask him if all this is true
i dont like him & he is just becoming to much.
2007-02-23 13:04:28 · 25 answers · asked by godschild 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is a loner and i started talking to him b/c i needed help on a movie Q
and now he is always talking me
i just want to cry
2007-02-23 13:08:16 · update #1
Tell your Mom.
Let the chump know that you are aware of him.
Tell him that he gives you the creeps if he is that creepy & to leave you alone.
If he's not creepy,,maybe he just wants to be your friend but make it clear that you are not interested in him as a boyfriend.Tell him that you are too busy at home & with your studies.
If he doesnt respect your wishes,,then say it loud & proud to buzz off.I seriously think he just has a crush on you & seeing that you are ignoring him,,he is trying to get to know you but is too shy,,so talk to him & take it from there.Do NOT ever go anywhere alone with him.
2007-02-23 13:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do Not confront him.
Tell Your MoM, Tell your Dean, Make a police report! He cant get into trouble for talking bad about you unless you want to pursue slander charges but right now, with this person "knowing where you are", following you, watching you,sound to me like he has a problem with rejection and he very well may be emotionally disturbed. DO NOT WAIT! It is better to be safe than not even have the chance to be sorry. Please no matter what time it is where you live, make that call to your Mom and she will help you. Your Mom must be raising you right because your in collage. TRUST HER ! Your in my Prayers...Theresa
2007-02-23 21:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Theresa W 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You really need to report him do not say anything to him at all. Let someone know your mom of course and the principal as well. There is no telling what is on his mind to do to you. You want believe what people will do to you if they can not be with you and I don't want him to harm you in anyway when you get to be by yourself this is too serious it may not seem like a big issue but it really is cause you do not know what his intentions are some people who you think want hurt you will.
2007-02-23 21:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're slightly over dramatising every day occurences, and it sounds as if your friends might be childishly stirring it up.
How did you know he was looking at you because he finds you so irresistible? You say he was sat behind you so you would have had to turn round to look at him first!!! If people see someone turn round to look right at them, they're naturally going to look back at them!
Maybe he HAD to pass your table to go wherever he was going??
In my opinion you would sound like a silly little drama queen if you reported these stupid little tales to the dean and might actually come across as the one whois obsessed.
Calling the guy a stalker is just too stupid. A lot of women would be flattered whether they found the admirer attractive or not.
That's my opinion anyway. Just blank the geezer if you don't like him, grow up and develop a little compassion.
2007-02-23 21:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by riffyxraff 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are sure he is stalking you I would report it to the school dean, and to the police. He may just seem annoying now, but a lot of these things can turn very ugly. I would hate for you to become the victim in one of those detective shows on Court TV.
2007-02-23 21:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by p_doell 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Seriously don't be bothered with him at all tell your mom and she can help you deal with this . He could be dangerous cause if he is stalking your every move he is probably planning a way to kid nap you or hurt you . What ever you do don't ask him anything , that's why he is spreading things about you so you come up to him and he could grab you and your mother not knowing whats happening she'll never know whats going on or who this guy is . Good luck and be smart !
2007-02-23 21:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Me777 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You def. need to report him. My dad is a police officer and i've heard some pretty horrible stories. Listin you are better safe than sorry. You cant be to safe. Things like this can turn really bad. And i'm talking from experience. You have nothing to loose to report him!!!!!
2007-02-23 21:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by TweeteR4 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sounds really bad and confronting him will help Little. so then make a police report on harassment. No letters just staight up scream at him to just leave you alone!!! YOu don't like him and he gives you the creeps!! So tell him to back off cuz it's not winning you over for him to act like this at all>>>
2007-02-23 21:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, report him. What he's doing is illegal as well as dangerous. Talk to your mother, too...don't hesitate. If you want to talk to him, be aware he may act "innocent" and deny your claims.
Document (write down) everything he's done/doing, making certain to put down dates, times, and anything else important.
You shouldn't have to live w/this hanging over you. Deal with it soon.
2007-02-23 21:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would report him, and if he isnt the dean can take what ever action is needed, just tell the dean you are worried for your safety and you prefer to have him take care of it...
2007-02-23 21:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋