I think I found my biological father. I have never known him and its been 25 years. I do want to meet him but don't know how or what I should do. I have everything about him including phone numbers, addresses and possible relations of his. But it scares me to death to contact him. What if he doesn't want to talk to me? What if he wants nothing to do with me? I can't talk to my mom about it, she the one who told me about him but its a sore subject with her. So I don't even want to tell her I found him for fear of upsetting her. I have a right to know and yet she thinks I'm better off, my curiosity is overbearing. He has no obligations to me and if I just meet him once, maybe my curiosity will subside. How should I handle this? I'm terrified. Please help...thanks...
2007-02-23 13:04:17 · 4 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the best thing to do is call.. its teh eaisiest thing =]
my friend did the same thing.. and i was sitting right thereR! it was soo asum.. they talked for a while.. call .. do it u wont regret it trust me.. and even if it ends up bad at least u will noe waht hees liek u noe? i mean what do u have to loosse?!
best of luck. my wishes to ya!
2007-02-23 13:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a message, he may get it, you get no response then hey its possible he doesnt wanna talk. he may have alot on his plate i mean you say its been a while, dont prejudge no matter what youve been told. saying hi aint gonna hurt.
2007-02-23 21:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by lininha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him and go meet him and do some stuff that you and him like to do.
2007-02-23 21:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask hm q's i lost mines too sorry about that
2007-02-23 21:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋