ok here's the story my aunt was supose to make my wedding cake when i got married and that day she said she couldn't do it but never gave me a reason y. then later that night my other told me she said she was glad not to make my cake. she also called my cousin the daughter of the devil and her baby the child of satan because she was born out of wedlock. then she got all mad when she wanted to make my sister's baby shower cake and my sistet said no its ok i already got one. what would u do in this situation?
2007-02-23 12:44:46 · 10 answers · asked by ~::JAEL::~ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
forgive....
forgiveness is not what you really do for the other person(s)
it's what you do for yourself.....it releases you and your intense
feelings of (hate, revenge, frustrations, anger, etc...) use the power of those emotions to do something positive --even about situations that are unfair.
Hey, in life you can't always have your cake and eat it too (sorry for the pun!) At the end of our lives, it's relationships that matter most--not any reason good or bad of why a wedding cake wasn't made.
Hope it all smooths out.
2007-02-23 12:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by answerb4midnight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'd forgive it just sounds like maybe your Aunt has some growing up to do and people say things that they don't mean sometimes so don't take it to heart. When family acts like that I just forgive and just remember from my mistakes so there aren't no problems that arise from anything. When you want something done, people nowadays need to either do it their self or ask their best friend that way there's no conflict.
Okay chow!
2007-02-23 21:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I think you should forgive yes because she is already old and why should your mom cooke the cake the grandma is already old and they tired to do almost everything
thanks that was a good question
I like that question
2007-02-23 20:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nice girl Svetlana Singer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should forgive her ,but stay away from people like that be wise and careful about whos around you especially someone like that. even if shes family those are the worst .
2007-02-24 00:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by babydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can forgive her, like jesus forgives the sinners... but dont trust her again.... maybe she has a problem on you or your family.. there's a day that no one will trust her of that damn attitude.. its her lost! pray for her to realize what is she doing... kick her butt lady! hehehehe!
2007-02-23 20:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by d'g0odMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow she sounds like a real *****! If she is this much of a pain in the as s i wouldnt even talk to her anymore
2007-02-23 20:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by ruby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should forgive her cos she's ur aunt,the only thing is that u turn ur deaf ear on her next time.
2007-02-23 20:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, stay away from her, she is a sad, bitter woman. Be around positive, loving, friends and family.
2007-02-23 20:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not like your paying her money so just leave it.
2007-02-23 20:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tall her screw you!!!! hahahahahahah
2007-02-23 20:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋