well me an my baby started out as very close friends..we had been knowing each other for 3 years and out of them 3 years we dated one year and 3 months..wen we brokeup.. nothing changed i mean he still spent da nite and everything we still told each other i luv u..and dat we wanted to spend da rest of our lifes wit each other..and we didnt eva want to move on.so he had me waiting on him bc he said he was scared for us to get bac 2getha bc he didnt want to hurt me again..so one bout 2 months later he tells me he dont want a relationship..it hurts really bad..he's my first love i dont know wat to do...now we dont even talk like dat n e more...i want to move on but he's da only boi i want.. i cry every nite...how did it end like dis we were so in love...he told me i was his everything....please help me
2007-02-23 12:43:32 · 2 answers · asked by breyauna s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, you shoudnt worry about people telling you to learn how to spell... ur expressing urself about something personal, so that's irrelevant, what's important is that ur being honest in your feelings right now.... i'm willing to bet that since he's ur first love ur probably young and this reality ur living is harsh...like the song says "the first cut is the deepest"... but you are resilient... you went along in your life before you knew him and will be able to do the same again without him... i'm sure you were insightful and expressive then, now you get to be that person with the added experience of having known a love, having known that you deserve the best, and having the strength to move on... because if that's the question ur asking urself, then u already know the answer...you are teaching him how to treat you... don't be accessible and don't believe the bullsht... we've all been there at some point or another, and the smart ones move on from situations that are beneath the treatment that goddesses like ourselves are worthy of.... without sounding like a hallmark card, if u love urself and hold out for what's really good~ then it will be...
you know you can have a longer relationship, u know you have love to give, so get on and heal, and then give it someone who deserves it for real... taking it easy and with this experience in mind but without making someone else "pay" for his mistakes... and u'll be aight.... 1
2007-02-26 22:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by tata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, learn to SPELL. But seriously, just try and calm down, believe me, I know how it feels. You need time to see so many things. Are you sure you really want him back, or are you just scared to get out on your own? I've been solo for a year now, and sometimes it gets to me too, but I keep reminding myself that to hang on to someone who doesn't want to stay is only keeping you from finding the one who really does. I wish you good luck, and good healing.
2007-02-23 20:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_eyed_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋