well my bf don't know my freinds but yet he hates them for no reason and don't give a damn about them with hurt that he don't respect me or my true really good friends also he thinks whatever i say that i mean is a joke. i don't feel that i am taken but i feel like i am single know what i mean, like he is not making out with me, touching me or doing what a man does when he has a woman also he said that we to some people that we in love but when i try to makeout with him in public he turn his face also he don't do nothing to make me feel happy. i love him alot and i care about him. please help what should i do
2007-02-23 12:39:25 · 20 answers · asked by adelaide 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good friends are hard to find and if your bf can't respect the friends you have then there is something seriously wrong with that. If i were you i would let this guy go, but since you say your love him you should really try and work things out. Give him and ultimatum. If he doesn't change than maybe your relationship status should. It might be best to just be friends, that way you can still keep him in your life but with out the drama, hopefully.
2007-02-23 12:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were u, I would kick his a r s e all the way back where he came from. Respect comes with love. They are directly propotional to each other. If he doesn't show u respect...dump him before he becomes a liability. And no he doesn't care about u at all. The whole package should be accepted. Family, friends, pets and whatnot. After all he saw something in u to go out in the first place. If that has changed then what's left to cherish. Hope u find someone who loves and respects u better.
2007-02-23 21:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by misam y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby you deserve better than that ,someone who really loves accept you the way you are , sometimes yes may encounter with friends problems ...but good communication is a most .
I think he is macho type ,you won't be happy with a guy like that.
I used to have a BF like that and he star nice than he change like your situation and then he went extreme to bit me ,I was on luck to get out of the situation on time ,after that happen I discover he has violence problems with every single woman he did have in the past .
my advise...you know who you are keep your self together, you are young ,there is plenty man in this planet for everybody and the best thing you can find someone super better than him.
I did find it :)
Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-23 20:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by eagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a clue he sounds controlling , which leads to abuse in every nature that exists!! that's not cool at all! Some people like the whole make-out thing in a private place so chill with that whole public showing...
2007-02-23 20:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he's not worth the heartache he's causing you and it will only get worse the longer you put it off, it appears that YOU are the only one who cares and one sided relationships just don't work. Be strong and do good for yourself, break it off. There are plenty of very good men in this world, why settle for one that is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated? Good Luck to you.
2007-02-23 20:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by robotchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has insecurity issues and is also displaying signs of a control freak. Hating your friends is a way to isolate and gain control over you. Send him away before it is too late. Anyone who does not make you happy to be around, you should avoid.
2007-02-23 20:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't seem to appreciate you the way you do. I can't see how yo ucan still care for that kind of guy.
You should either talk to him (a serious, long talk that you're SURE he'll listen to) or just break up with him.
2007-02-23 20:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is going to be tough for you to hear but the best thing i know of for you to do is to dump him and move on. you need to find someone who is going to love and respect you for who you are. you deserve a lot better than this. he is not going to change for you or anybody else. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-23 20:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing ive seen hes proable cheating on you guys that ask alot of q and dont trust you or thk ur lying are usually cheaters..that means they want to acuse YOU of cheating when there the ones doing the cheating!!!!
2007-02-23 20:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by asheleigha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl i think every girl in this world should have the best. And that maen you to. Well just pray then talk to him ask him why he is doing this to you. But don't let it go on to where you just get hurt. if you need to talk just I,M me. HI_C_BOY@YAHOO.COM
2007-02-23 20:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by Chris Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋