well i like this girl and she likes me too and were best friends and all but she was talking to one of my dudes and she was tellin him that she likes me but she wants to get over me cuz she claims it is breaking the rules to go out with your best friend. she doesnt know that i know about this whole talk and that i know that she likes me and all. but ive never heard of this rule. has any one of you guys ever heard this rule before??
2007-02-23 12:38:22 · 13 answers · asked by KRAYZIEBONE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
rule? lol. well i guess shes just afraid that if u guys go out and it doesnt work out and you break up you wont be able to be friends anymore because it might be awkward.
2007-02-23 12:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Ive been in your exact situation before. I was really good friends with a girl for a while. We hung out as friends for the longest time. Til she started to hang out with another guy, she would talk about how she likes him and how she wants to date him. Oh my god did that burn. Felt like my heart was on fire and about to explode. I told her that I have feeling for her and that I wanted to date her. She told me that I am her best friend and that we cannot date because of the fear that a relationship may screw up our friendship. But what she did not relize was that by us not dating ended up destroying our friendship just for the fact that I just cannot change how I feel and just be her friend while she dates someone else. So think of your friend dating someone else, how would you feel about that. If you feel you cannot move on being just her friend, talk to her about that. If she does'nt want lose you then she should take you. Good Luck!
2007-02-23 20:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Woody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, shes making excuses for being afraid of the situation. Strong relationships often start out as friends, and she knows this. Next time you are hanging out, start being more playful with her, and start touching her more. On her lower back, on her shoulder, grab her hand and do something with it, just start touching her. She likes you already and you know this. Tease her and try to get her to wrestle or get her in a joking mood. Then tell her you want to give her a kiss, if she pauses, then just do it. She already likes you, you need to let her know that you want more than friends also.
It sounds like you should do it sooner than later, but do it. Never let an opportunity pass by.
2007-02-23 20:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true, you should never date your best friend and in fact it is a rule. After you break up the friendship is never the same, if at all. Stay friends.
2007-02-23 20:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard that rule before, and yeah I'm a girl. Anyway, rules were made to be broken. Maybe she's embarrassed or something or she doesn't know you like her.
2007-02-23 20:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things rarely work out with friends. If you want to give it a try go for it. Surprise her. Tell her how you feel, especially if you like her, cause she likes you, so dont fear rejection. If both of you want to give it a shot, go for it.
To be honest, its best just to stay friends. If it doesn't work out, its hard to go back just to friends. Either way good luck
2007-02-23 20:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a BIG rule.
Mostly because if you date your best friend it can end up ruining the friendship if it doesn't work.
2007-02-23 20:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by dr_mctwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol yea it doesnt really matter the more best frineds you are already the better its going t obe..so ask her out i say..im in the same position except my best friend has a boyfriend, and i wouldnt mind dating her
2007-02-23 20:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by ClickSubscribe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never such rule so be frank & move ahead if you have loyalty & truthfulness in your relationship.
2007-02-23 20:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like her and she likes u why not. ihad a guy friend and now we're going out (we meat @ church when we were like 8)
2007-02-23 20:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋