I don't know what to do?

Question

I have this serious crush on someone. I'm way to young for a relationship. I going to sorta ask three questions here. See, my crush sits next to a verry pretty girl in social studies, and i am in the same class, but not next to him. I see him talking to her a lot....but I don't know if I should be upset. I don't what him talking to her, but I don't have any right telling him what to do. Not that I talk to him a lot. I never talk to him. I always get so nevous but i always think of something to say. Whenever I think about him, I think about him talking to that other pretty girl. I defenatally not as pretty as her. I think I might write like a love nothe from a 'secret admirer' to him. When im not thinking about him with that pretty girl, i just think about him and he is soooo cute! I don't think anyone else thinks so though. I just want to scream out that I love him, but thats insane. i have kept this bottled up. there is no way i can tell my friends because we have had

a riot making fun of another friends crush. okay, question 1: Should I tell my MOM that i like this boy?
question2: What should i do about him and this other girl?
question3:should i write a love note to him from his 'secret admirer'?
help???

Answer 1

ok girlie. Answer 1: you should let your mom know that way your not trying to sneak around because if and when you get caught it is worse consequences than if she already knows.
Answer2: don't make a big fuss about those two. They aren't going out are they? then just let them talk. son't be too jealous cause guys don't like that, also guys don't like girls telling them who they can and can't talk to or hang out with as well as girls don't. Answer 3: yes dro him a note. yes put from secret admirer that way you don't reveal yourself to him just yet cause you know he's gonna show all his buddies the note then they are gonna talk about it and so on. Best just to keep your name clear for awhile. put questions on the note like would you be interested in a girlfriend? Who do you like? Stuff like that then have him put the letter somewhere that only you would be able to go locate it.

Answer 2

You should be able to tell your mom anything.

You can't do squat about the other girl. He's attracted to her, not you, so just accept it. Don't mean to be harsh, but let me save you years of desperate thoughts about crushes. I have had all the same thoughts as you, and now I'm older and in a fantastic relationship. Let me tell you, this fantastic relationship did not start because I had a crush on him and he ignored me. It stated because we were BOTH attracted to each other and we get along really well.

DO NOT WRITE HIM A LOVE LETTER. Man, I cannot stress this enough. I've already made that mistake for you, and let me tell you the results: COMPLETE EMBARASSMENT AND HUMILIATION. Know why? BECAUSE HE DIDN'T LIKE ME OR HE WOULD HAVE APPROACHED ME INSTEAD OF THE OTHER GIRL IN THE FIRST PLACE.

For real--you're young, you'll get the hang of being with, dating, and hooking up with guys. Right now, just think they're cute and don't push something that doesn't happen naturally.

Show you're mom this posting too.

Just relax and have fun while you're young. No sense in worrying about one little cute boy you like right now... there will be plenty more, and guess what--some of them will actually like you back too!!!

Answer 3

First off you need to take a breather!! Chill out, life is to short to be stressing out over a boy you haven't had a chance to get to know and this so called pretty girl that he talks to. I'm sure you have a whole score of things going for you. You just have to let them show. Don't ever believe that some1 else is better than you. In your eyes you should be the best and if this boy doesn't see that then he wasn't worth your time anyways!! And yes you should tell your mother about this boy. I'm sure she can help you our more then you know.

Answer 4

you dont have to tell your mom yet just wait and see if you end up having a relationship with him and about the girl ask her if she likes him and dont rite it from a secret admirer rite it from YOU let him know you like him dont keep it bottled up you never know whatl happen unless you take a chance

Answer 5

q1 tell her q2 try talking to him more and see what he does q3 dont u may make a fool of urslef just try talking to him and see if he likes u or keep talking to him and make him like u girl best of luck!