how do i get this girl not be be kind of scared to go out wit me?

Question

ok..well theres this girl that i like and im like 95% positive that she likes me and so is my friend. this is based on the way that she acts around me in school and how much we hang out during the day. the thing is, shes kind of a prep and has a lot of preppy friends...she most likely doesnt want to start datin me becuz shes scared of wut her friends would think. i mean, im a cute guy, as evryone tells me, but i guess its jus cuz im not WAY UP high on the "hot" meter like she is...well how can i get her to admit her feelings for me? (if there is any)

Answer 1

whoah have you ever listened to billy joel's "uptown girl"? you know her friends aren't true they're friends for the fashion. preppy kids other than your friend can get off the high horse they rode in on she likes you for the way you are and she is a true friend don't pay attenton to her "friends"

Answer 2

Ok, first things first...you are only as "hot" as you think you are. Don't get cocky and arrogant, but look at yourself in the mirror and realize that you are more than "cute."

Confidence can make a semi cute guy, look like Brad Pitt. If she cares that much what her friends think and her status in the school, then you don't want her anyways.

Remember this: " if a girl is on a pedestal, its because you put them there."

Most likely, she thinks your cute and she is intimidated by you. Believe it or not, even the hottest girls, get intimidated by guys that they find attractive. It took me a long time to learn this. Give yourself a pep talk and start talking to her. Don't be afraid, shes just a girl.

Talk to her, but don;t let her know that you are into her right away. Play it cool, just walk up to her, make eye contact and smile. Say "hi" and introduce yourself. Make short conversation then tell her that you need to catch up with one of your friends...Always leave women wanting more....ALWAYS.

If you do it correctly, next time in school, she may be intimidated to even look at you, so if she doesn't, then don't feel bad. If you run into her, make eye contact and smile...but don;t go looking for her. Let a few days go by then "run" into her again. This time, tell her it was nice meeting her the other day and ask her for her phone number. Say "hey (Name), it was great talking with you the other day, I was wondering if you would like to get together sometime with me and my friends, can I get your phone number?" Once you get that you are in, but don;t call her right away (3 days MINIMUM) and don't call her but once or twice a week at first. Don;t text her until you talk to her on the phone at least once. Stay confident, there are 3 Billion women in this world.

Answer 3

I have a friend who's in the exact same situation as you. She likes this guy, and we definitely know for a fact that he likes her too, but he just can't go out with her because she's not popular like he is. And that kind of view makes him look like a jerk. And this girl.. If she can't except you for whatever place in the "hot meter" that you're on, then she's not right. Give it time. Maybe she'll realize the mistake she's making by following her head and not her heart.

Answer 4

well, maybe u shud ask her out first. she's waiting for YOU to make the move.
if u already asked her out, and she's thinking about it, maybe just give her a week. if she still doesnt give u an answer, ask her to decide rite then and there.
i mean, obviously she likes u and u like her, so u belong 2gether.

it cud be though that she knows someone that went out w/ u , and they told her u were a total jerk becuz theey want revenge. or maybe u broke up with someone with a txt msg. ur past could affect it.

but, as i have said before, it sounds like u 2 r made 4 eachother.

Answer 5

Dude, girls look for guys who are self confident, and if she is so consumed with finding a "hottie" then do you really want to get involved with someone so shallow? Use the brain above your shoulders and see if you really like this girl's personality, or is it just her looks. Once you have that answer, you will know whether you want to ask her out. If you do, then do it. If not, then go find a woman who is worthy of you.

Or so says the happily married average Joe who has a gorgeous wife.

DrG

Answer 6

Welp, first you gotta ingage in a conversation. Talk about anything both of you like to talk about. When u can tell she's comterable with you then you can ask about a little date or go to dinner together or something. But, remember 2 things:
1. Don't be annoying, lol
2. Beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee your self
Also just wait a little and spent time with her. sooner or later she'll admit her feeling to you.
GOOD LUCK!:)

Answer 7

expensive u are in simple terms 13, so communicate examine. those issues do no longer flow alongside if performed in this manner of youthful age. at first make urself mature to comprehend meaning of a DATE. U r too small 4 those kind of issues. could be u will think of abt me what she is saying yet incredibly of givin u some trouble-free tips i might desire to lead u 2 suitable direction. If u like a boy this is great bt dates etc at no longer ur age.

Answer 8

You just have to take a chance and ask her out. There is really no other way to find out unless you or your friend asks one of her friends but it will get back to her some way and that may make you look childish.

Answer 9

tell her to get a lot of people to go out with you as well and do that several times till she sees that you are cool. and she can...sort of trust you..

but remember don't take too long to let your intension for a ++ relationship or you will fall into the pit of "just friends"" and it sucks down in that pit!!!.. chances are you will never get of it with her once cast into it...

Answer 10

If she will not go out with you because of what her friends are saying or might say then she is not the girl for you.