which applies to u?
a broken bone can be healed but a broken heart will never be the same
or
anyone can make u laugh or cry but it takes a special person to bring a smile to your face whnen you already have tears in your eyes
2007-02-23 12:07:31 · 19 answers · asked by Michelle B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question...a year and a half ago I would have said the first but I came upon a revelation: a broken heart won't ever be the same, it'll be better. When we instill part of ourselves in another person by sharing experiences and talking with them, we give them a part of our heart. This is good because hearts were never meant to be kept to ourselves. When we do give someone a bit of our heart imagine that whatever they put into it pumps back into us, thus they give us part of theirs to put more of our heart into. If either person doesn't put anything into it, the connection dries up and you lose that part of your heart. And if that connection was once good, you are a new person because you still have a part of their heart in you. This newly formed heart, part yours and part theirs, grows in connections with others and learns from connctions lost. When we get better at giving ourselves to others in this manner, it is learning to love because love is a habit and an attitude. If the connection with a person was one sided, then it dries up quickly and you are protected from any further hurt. If the connection is unhealthy because of poisoning from either or both persons, then the connection and both hearts are diseased. This disease can be eliminated through love. This disease fighting love is found in faith to God and/or other people who have connections to the diseased person's heart. In other words, because your heart has parts from not just one connection but many, the love pouring in from the majority of these connections can overide the diseased connection and cure the disease, thus severing the bad connection or curing the source of contamination.
Essentially, a broken heart will never be the same, but if that heart has been grown and loved many, then it can only grow stronger. When a person has only love for oneself or a few bad others, then only faith and/or self determination will make that heart whole again.
2007-02-23 12:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Swibblestix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 1st One Cause Once Your Heart Has Been Broken By A Person Its Never The Same For That Person And You Somewhat Resent The Next Person In Your Life.
2007-02-23 20:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dee Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the socend one is more like a poem the first one has my life in it I don't cry I just can't I want to be I do not know how even when some one that i know has died. but my hurt has been broken and well I have never and will neve be the same in that matter which was 3 years ago. so I say the first one.
2007-02-23 20:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a broken bone can be healed but a broken heart will never be the same
definitely this one
2007-02-23 20:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say the second one. There is someone special in my life that can cheer me up no matter what kind of mood im in or how things are going.
2007-02-23 20:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by Woody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first one
2007-02-23 20:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#2
2007-02-23 20:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by alboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#2
2007-02-23 20:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 because that person has to be a special person who you like or look up to
2007-02-23 20:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by wiz and skinz fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 st one
2007-02-23 20:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋