Ive never been able to have a girlfriend for more then a month. I always seem to get the girl to go out with me but it never lasts. I dont want my next girlfriernd to end up like all the rest. If I ever get another chance. Ive built up a reputation.
2007-02-23 12:06:27 · 2 answers · asked by Steve M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have a reputation, besides the one that you have set for yourself. Also, reputations can be changed over night. Don;t give a girl so much of yourself early on. Girls love difficult guys. By difficult I mean a guy that plays it cool, don;t push, and doesn;t give to much of himself. Keep some mystery about yourself, so there is more for them to want to know about you.
Get them talking, and don;t talk about past relationships. If they bring it up, just say "I'm still looking for the right one." If they ask more just tell them that they didn;t work out, don;t blame yourself.
Don't get into your emotions, your thoughts on life, and most importantly, don;t seem desperate. Casually date several girls at the same time. It will help you build up confidence when you are with them. They will see it in you and pick one that you like, but make her work for it. If she asks you to hang out on Friday, tell her you are busy and that Saturday works better.
Most importantly: don;t give up, when you find the right one, it won;t be about the games, but until then, you may need to play the games a little......Keep your chin up, the first date is always the hardest one to get and you seem good at that!!!!
2007-02-23 12:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you!! Hopefully you're getting a piece of ass before they leave! Shoot a month is way too long! You're doing great just the way you are! That reputation you have is a good thing, women dig a guy who knows what he's doing! You'll be fine. Keep up the good work.
2007-02-23 20:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by daddyferrari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋