the guy that likes me is getting worst.. he's now stocking me & now saying i selpt w/ him (i didnt) i am so mad. im not sure if he actually said that i slept with him but someone told me so. i almost cried. luckily no one believes him & they dont know its me & i know hes stocking me because he knows were i meet my friends during brunch and during bruch i walked right by him pretending i didnt see him & then when i sat at the table he sat at a table behind me & he was pretending to read but really was looking at me (i could see him threw the corner of my eye) & then a person blocked him from seeing me & he started to walk by my table.
my friends said i should report him to the dean & i think i will if he keeps it up.. i plan on giving him a letter because he keeps on ruining my day
i havent told my mom about this do you think i should?
i first want to ask him if all this is true
i hate that he says i did something i didnt do. i havent slept w/ anyone & dont till marriage
hes gross
2007-02-23 12:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by godschild 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i met him in history
he got me a rose for V day and was trying to give me a stuffed monkey, hes trying to have lunch w/ me and was going to ask me to a dance but i left on time
I AM SCARED OF HIM
HE WONT LEAVE ME ALONE
2007-02-23 12:13:52 · update #1
i am always afraid that he will come up to me in class
2007-02-23 12:30:12 · update #2
wow gurl........that has to be very iritating!!!!! ok the next time u see him or feel hes following u....u should confront him b/c he shouldnt be starting rumors....he shouldnt be stalking u.....and he needs to leave you alone!!! tell him u feel very uncomfortable and that if he continues this bizzare behavior u will rreport him to the dean!!!! and if u feel u need to tell ur mom....go ahead b/c this guy is juss rediculous and wont leave u alone!!! i really hope the best 4 u and i hope this guy gets a reality check!!!!!! i hope my advice helped u!!!! good luck!!!!
2007-02-23 12:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lovelyy2012 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you're being a complete drama queen and enjoying the fantasy. And why have youposted this twice? Didn'tyou get enough attention the first time?
A guy that gave you a rose for valentines day doesn't sound like the kind of guy that's going to spread nasty rumours.
If you don't like him,yes write hima letter and state the fact that you're not interested in him like that. You haven't got to demonise the poor kid.
You better grow up because unless you're one helluva "gross" looking female, you're going to have to learn to deal with admirers with a little sensitivity and dignity - instead of whining like some pathetic wet fart like you are now.
Update
I don't know why you feel compelled to explain it all in a private message to me beccause it's nothing different from what you've said here, except for explaining why you call the poor guy a "stalker" -- your explanation being that it's because that's what your friends call him.
So, I stand by what I said - you are immature, your friends are even worse and as soon as the guy sees you for what you really are - he'll be wondering what he ever saw you in the first place.
The guy fancies you - big deal, he's behaving just like any other guy that fancies a girl. Like I said, explain to him that you're not interested in him like that and then move on.
Branding him as some sort of super creep, and calling him a stalker is character assasination and he could have a case against youif he so wished to report yours and your friends bullying behaviour.
You said yourself you don't really know if he said you slept with him - why would he have reason to? if you've never even been alone with him? It's all part of yours and your friends attempt to create a drama where there isn't one.
2007-02-23 13:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by riffyxraff 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he comes up to you. Then u could ask him if itz true cause sometimes friends could over exaggerate the situation of him pretending to read a book. You should tell ur mom cause if anything happens she would know. Dont tell the dean yet approach him first. He probably doesn't mean any harm.
2007-02-23 12:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by tRaCi3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Simple.
Take a couple of friends -- if one of them can be a guy, so much the better.
Go right up to this guy and tell him in front of your witnesses that you have no interest in him, that you've never had any sort of relationship with him and that if he doesn't stop lying about you and stalking you immediately you'll go straight to the Dean to report him and without further ado go on to your parents and to the Police.
The go straight to the Dean and tell him/her that you've been having a spot of bother with an unnamed boy, that you hope that it'll stop, but that if there's any more bother you're going to come back and name him.
2007-02-23 12:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, this reminds me a lot of what happened to me and it's still kind of going on.
You really need to report this guy. Ignore him at all costs. Do not talk to him, tell your friends not to talk to him, and if you can - talk to his friends and tell them what's up and be firm about it. If this guy approaches you, look him in the eye and say, "You have absolutely no right to make up stories about me. Do not talk to me ever again, leave me alone, and do something else with your life." Then move away. If he still bothers you, report him to the dean.
You don't have to do this, your day shouldn't be ruined because some guy can't stop stalking you.
2007-02-23 12:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
baby girl if he is stalking you , you need to tell your mom and the report it to the police or someoneand then again maybe your mom should talk to him and tell him ti leave you alone in front of the police or dean......do not give him a letter because then he has a letter saying that you wrote him.
2007-02-23 12:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by La Rhonda V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Report HiM ASAP!!! The longer you wait the worse his behavior will be... If he doesnt take a hint with school authority, take it to the next level with a police report...And Yes tell your mom!!
2007-02-23 12:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by onlyin2it2enjoy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your mom, tell a freind. tell the cops. Talk to someone before you make things worse. If you make a scene in public, he could seek you out for revenge later. Change your habits, be unpredictable.
2007-02-23 12:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to your local police department now before this gets worse he is invading your personal space and clearly does not respect you.
2007-02-23 12:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just report him fast, tell your dad today.
2007-02-23 12:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by andrea 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋