I just got out of a good relationship but she cheated on me and now I have to move on, but I find myself still so hurt it happened around V day. I really need someone but I dont know if I will be able to love again because this last relationship was my first, and I put everything I had into it. My heart soul body time energy, everything. now I know I have to work on myself and I'm doing that but I still feel alone and I dont know if I will be able to trust or love again
2007-02-23 11:55:38 · 4 answers · asked by Andres A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there. Done that. Did it again. There's no definitive answer. When you meet the right woman you'll know. My new approach to this is to gauge how safe she makes feel when I'm with her.
2007-02-23 12:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Naturally it will take time to deal with this, but you will move on. Trust yourself, when the situation presents itself you won't have any choice, because if you don't give her your heart, she'll just take it and you won't even know what the heck happened. You can put all kinds of restrictions on your future relationships if you like, but as your relationship flourishes, those restrictions have to be gradually lifted. When it gets to the point that you finally want to get married, consider this, if you are not prepared without hesitation to put 100% into your marriage, that is no boundaries, no restrictions, it will fail.
2007-02-23 12:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course your going to have trust issues thats normal in those cicumstances but before getting into another relationship you have to realise not every guy will cheat on you & not to let your trust issues get in the way cause you might ruin your new relationship.i had a similar experience & you will find love again. your first love will always be with you its the most important & what you had with him you wont have with someone else cause eveyone is different. hold onto what you 2 had not what broke u 2 up. figure yourself out, you will trust again its just something you have to rebuild again but you will getr there. good luck.
2007-02-23 12:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by tambat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got to try and move on.
it may take a while, but you can't live in the past.
you've got to show him that he's not what your life revolves around anymore.
2007-02-23 12:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by youmakemesmile :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋