I'm writing a letter to my ex to explain my feelings and hopefully make him realize stuff. After reading all the letters from him in the past 2 yeras we were together.. there is no doubt in my mind that we are suppose to be together. Infact in almost every letter he said he cant wait to spend the restof his life with me and im the only one for him. Because of my mistake he wanted to take a break.. now im trying to win him back. I dont want to be too pushy but i want him to know that we are suppose to be together and that if he is mine again it will be different. I dont want to be clingy. I just need help with how to word things. Basiclly.. how do i let him know i want him back without being needy?
2007-02-23 11:49:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your basic logic doesnt work, your question is 'things i can write to MAKE him realize,,,,,'...you can write a million word essay, explaining to him all the reasons in your mind why you two should be together, and none of it will influence him either way to get back in the relationship, if he still feels the love and excitement for you, you will have him, but all your words and reasons, and explanations wont work, sorry to say~~~
2007-02-23 12:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by ~Cindy~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do that but remember this" YOU Can't Make someone love you..." Get to know yourself a little more and think about other stuff don't go on begging it's not pretty...If he does want to give you another shot then cool, Stop being clingy have things to do that are productive
2007-02-23 19:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What facts do you have to prove you are "supposed" to be together? There are none. Start going out and dating. If he still cares for you, let him chase you. Don't beg. No matter what words you use, you will be begging.
2007-02-23 19:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is a reason why he split with you he doesn't want to be with you right now give him some space if he comes back hes yours.
2007-02-23 19:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't write him. you can't make him feel something he doesn't. just give him some space... alot of space, if he comes back, then maybe you guys have another chance.
if you keep writing him and bugging him about it, he's going to get really annoyed. if you back off, he'll wonder about and probaly miss you.
2007-02-23 19:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should write what your mistake was that will make it easier for all of us to answer
2007-02-23 19:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..If a man thinks u r needy why do you need him???? Ya don't b/c he won't LOVE u like u deserve........
2007-02-23 19:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't ready for a relationship
2007-02-23 19:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋