talk to her. she has a job, she goes to a different school than me. i dont have HOMECOURT advantage.
my friend told me one time a guy liked the girl i liked and one day he went to her job and said hi i think yur beautiful can i have yur number? she gave him her number but never called him. my friend said she was freaked out. IM THINKIN great i cant talk to the girl i like at her job cause im thinkin i might SCARE HER OFF.
i asked my friend u think the girl i like will think im a coward if i ask u to get info bout the girl i like? she said probaly yeah and i expecting that answer. also i asked my friend was she surprised when she found out someone had a crush on her? she said no. and said i dont think she wants a boyfriend yet. (thats me with crush)
the girl i liked said something like oh really? Who likes me? if the girl i liked asked those questions does that show a LITTLE interest?
well i need ideas in how to talk to her at her job. should i even bother talkin to her?
2007-02-23 11:46:47 · 6 answers · asked by LaZlow 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Part of being a man is having the nerve to put yourself on the line of rejection and ask her out. If you are too worried about "will she say yes" then you are not ready to date. If you like this girl, then you should simply go up to her and invite her out for something casual (Coffee, a movie, ice cream, a concert). If she is interested, then you can get to know her (you don't really know her yet -- just about her). Once that is discovered, you will find out whether you are a good match.
Good luck.
DrG
2007-02-23 11:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by drg20202004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking who likes me shows only interest in learning who likes her---she just curious, she doesn't have any idea it's you, right?
I would stop telling other people what you think about her and just start smiling, joking around and getting to know her before you scare her with your mysterious behavior at work. It might creep her out before she gets to know you at all!
If there's a way to make her day a little more fun, her job a little easier and if it doesn't interfer with your own duties at work--or make you look like a doormat in her eyes, then take that golden opportunity to connect with her while on the job.
Good luck--I hope she's worthy of your affection.
2007-02-23 19:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dusty Springfield 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, go for it!! Carpe Diem. (Siez the day) If you like her, then ask her if she will give you a chance even if she doesn't want a boyfriend right then and if she says no then ask her if you could ever be with her. go from there. youre strong, youll get through it and good luck!!!
2007-02-23 19:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your going about this all wrong. Don't be so hard on yourself. Be spontaneous take the chance to visit her job just to say hi. Don't worry yourself to death with coulda and shoulda's. It only hurts if you don't try.
2007-02-23 19:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yeah you should talk to her!!!!
ignore the bosnian dude. hes a freak who dosnt know what hes talking about.
2007-02-23 19:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Linzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THANKS for capitalizing WORDS!
Anyways, just hit and and forget it... Also, grow some balls.
2007-02-23 19:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by TheBosnian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋