there is this guy i like in my class and he like me and i kind like him and he ask me to have sex... i really want to know haw sex feels but i dont know when we are bout to do it will i be ready.... i think i am but at the same time i dont know. he said when if i say yes he will try to make the sex a little bite more fun i am only 12... but i do want to have fun but at the sametime i dont want to loss my respect so young so can you help me
2007-02-23 11:45:12 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a guys point of view...............carmella............12,huh...you havent even begun to enjoy life yet...sex is something you share with a very special person...husband/wife...your vertue is something you can only give once...this boy,has expressed his interrest in you for sex only...after he has what he wants he'll be gone...and you can bet on one thing,he will tell all his friends that he had you...so theres something else you'll have to look foreward to...boy are pigs...i was one,i know...they see a pretty girl and right away they want to get your pants down...this ain't cool...giving yourself to a boy isn't either...keep your pants up and your skirt down...you will have plenty of time to experience sex when your a little older...12 is just to young hon...way to young...be safe...be kind...and i wish you love.......
2007-02-23 12:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by hystericaly_kinky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey. I Definitely say: DON'T have sex! I know your probably interested, but you are only 12!! you still have A LOT of time to do that. I think you should enjoy your childhood while it is lasting. And don't worry because one day you will have sex.
If you really do like this guy, hang out with him first. Get to know him a little better and I'd say wait a few years before you take a huge step like that. After having sex, you might experience a lot of emotional things.
Good Luck- I know you will make a good choice no matter what! :)
2007-02-23 12:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are f*ing 12? Oh sweetheart save it! You are not ready at all. You may be curious but if he is that younge and asking you for sex he is just a player and is going to leave you hanging. Wait a wee bit longer ok? I say until you are on your honey moon but 16 and up is better then 12 also ok?
2007-02-23 11:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You said in your question you kind of like him, so the answer is no.
2. That is a very young age to begin having sex. You will know when you are ready and hopfully you will wait till your several years older. Please don't give into his request, have more respect for yourself. If you give in it will be all over the school you attend very fast
2007-02-23 11:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by leonardhomes@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be having sex. Think of it this way - are you ready to raise a baby? Both of my sisters were taking birthcontrol when they got pregnant. Condoms sometimes break and birthcontrol is not perfect. Try discussing it with your mom. You will need her permission to get birth control. Don't let him pressure you - you are clearly not ready. Wait a few more years and see how you feel then.
2007-02-23 11:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ur 12 and ur thinking of having sex
of course u shouldn't u should wait until ur older and and u been going out for some time with ur boyfriend where ur comfortable around them and u know that he's the one u want to be with.
2007-02-23 11:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not sure or having doubts then you shouldnt have sex. u said you kinda like him,so that means you dont even like him that much. you dont have to have sex..please dont feel pressured into having sex at such a young age! what would happen if you got pregnant.even condoms are not that good.my sister got pregnant using a condom! its not worth it! stick to kissing and holding hands for now! when you are ready you wont be asking this question on yahoo,it will be something you just know!
please be careful.
goodluck to you
2007-02-23 11:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by yummy_mummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Like as other say, it's painful for girl first few time and trust me this guy will say he'll be gentle and tell you everything to make it sound all great and good. As soon as he start, he'll not stop even if you're in pain until he get what he want. After that he'll blow you off, go around say lot of bad things about you.
Stay away from this guy!
2007-02-23 11:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well , There is only one thing you can do
WILLPOWER, SAY NO ,
Enjoy life, dont get on that road , there will be more boys who will ask you to have sex.. The best thing always talk to your parents...They will now that you are in this stage of young growth
take care
2007-02-23 11:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 12???!!! You are a child!! Sex is for consenting adults and this guy is a CREEP. Get away from him as fast as possible. Save sex for someone you love when you are old enough to understand and accept the consequences of your actions. RUN from that creep!!
2007-02-23 11:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by blondee 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋