I met this guy on a chat line and then we started chatting back and for on yahoo he is a town away from me. He seems sweet and all but he says he thinks I am his soul mste and his heart feels funny when we talk but we have only chatted three times is he for real or a creap or desperate for a woman get back he is going to call in like twenty minutes please help me.
2007-02-23 11:44:41 · 24 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have only talked to him three times I would say hes nothing but a creep that wan'ts to get in your pants. Or he could be dangerous. When he calls have a long conversation with him and get to know him for a while through online conversations and through the phone before you go out with him. Another good idea is if you do decide to date him maybe do a double-date with a friend for a while, intil you feel comfortable being alone with him.
2007-02-23 11:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Woody 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful. If he is already regarding you as his soul mate, you have to ask yourself questions and be really honest. Is there really anything that special about your communications that would warrant him classifying you as a soul mate so soon, and without seeing you or really knowing you? Second, what kind of relationships has he ever had? Third, how does he normally meet women? Fourth, what does he have to offer you? Fifth, what kind of relationship can you have with a man that you barely know who already seems so needy? And last, but certainly not least, what do you want? At the least, he does sound a little strange.
2007-02-23 11:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from internet relationships. I have heard so many stories of people thinking they have found their sould mate and then finding out they are 10 or 70 or something. He sounds like a creep. Stop the chat is my advice and NEVER tell him personal information, not even your name. Trust me, he can get a map of your house and access to your credit card with even a little information.
2007-02-23 11:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chat Noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in a town away from you and he is your soul mate, why haven't yall met? Guys will say anything. You don't know each other well enough to be soul mates. And if you do decide to meet this freak, make sure you are not by your self.
2007-02-23 11:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by sandy n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either desperate or setting you up. A guy telling you he is your soulmate after only talking to him online 3 times is so cheesy. This isn't someone from a poor country wanting money is it? Have you seen a picture of him, if he is very attractive he probally is setting you up. If he has average looks he probally is desperate and looking for someone.
2007-02-23 11:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is still too early to say anything. Because the medium of the internet prevents alot of, what i call non-verbal communication, there may well be alot of things you may or may not like about him.
But the soulmate piece, i think its premature for him to make that supposition. For the moment keep your self on guard and watch him. Often times people who turn to the medium of the net, often have something else about themselves they'd rather not reveal. Everyone does have their black marks to hide after all.
2007-02-23 11:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Dai S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't trust this person. There are many creeps out there trying to find a person like you, who will actually consider giving them the time of day. You are putting your life on the line when you decide to meet someone you know absolutely nothing about and what you do know about them could be all lies.
2007-02-23 11:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely troubled. He may be for real, but you don't want THAT reality. If he already has your number, you'd better talk to him. Find a way to give him the definite message that you are not his soulmate. You could, for example, disagree with everything he says.
2007-02-23 11:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by Answer Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by zell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soul Mate. Word is only used by immature GIRLS and BOYS. What a piece of crap your talking to.
2007-02-23 12:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋