I mean, come on, tell him something! Tell him he's annoying, ugly, or whatever it is that's keeping you from liking him! I really loved this girl once and she would say she didn't like me like that when I would ask her out (we were friends). She never ever could tell me a reason for not liking me or tell me anything she didn't like about me even after she got angry with me and would never talk to me anymore (so far it's been ten months).
I gave her a card a week ago(Valentines Day) letting her know I miss her and I would like to be friends again at least, and I have decided to try and let her go since she hasn't said anything to me yet. The only thing I don't get is why all her friends like me but she still doesn't like me anymore. I feel like I never even got a fair chance to, you know, prove myself worthy of her. Anyway, I've met someone else now and so far we get along great. But I still have feelings for this girl even though we're not talking.
2007-02-23 11:44:17 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never pestered her. Close to when she had gotten mad at me I started only calling her once a week. Before that we talked nearly everyday because we never got to talk that much in school. She got mad at me because I told something about her that I shouldn't have to a friend, that she was falling in love with someone else, and she got angry at me and called me to fuss at me then when I would try to talk to her she would ignore me. I stopped trying then tried again 2 months later thinking I needed to give her space. We talked a little then I asked her if she was still mad at me, to which she said no, she just didn't want to talk to me anymore.
2007-02-23 11:47:51 · update #1
Also, 90% of people especially girls told me to get her something and that would be the best thing to do for her on V-Day. I didn't know wether I should have or shouldn't have.
2007-02-23 11:52:24 · update #2
I am a woman myself and i can say that alot of girls i've met are pretty 'woosy' about this, they don't want to say and sometimes are so concerned about hurting the guy's feelings that they inadvertantly hurt them more by saying nothing
when the guy keeps pursuing them... which leads them on sometimes...prolonging the agony for the poor guy!
2007-02-23 12:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wasn't interested in you as a boyfriend, and she didn't want to say anything to hurt your feelings, because you were friends and since you told her how you felt that scared her away, even as friends. Personally I can't tell a guy how I feel, it's really hard for me and I just avoid "talking" by ignoring them. And she probably is ignoring you now because it's odd for her and she doesn't want to give you a wrong idea if she sticks around as a freind that she might still give you a chance.. Sorry buddy... love sucks!!! I don't know why.....
2007-02-23 19:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime there really isn't a specific reason a girl doens't like a guy, that spark or chemistry isn't there. There's nothing you can do about it either. Although maybe you just need to apologize and make it up to her about talking about her behind her back.
2007-02-23 19:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Just_wondering234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she prolly didnt wana be harsh and just tel u to p*ss off. i hate it wen guys just want u to tell them.... ok so i understand, i wouldn't be too impressed either if a guy didnt give me a reason. she mite just be a shallow cow, too. who can really know??
2007-02-23 19:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Abz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've used "women" and "reasons" in the same sentence. Don't try to apply reason to a situation that's not amenable to it! :-)
2007-02-23 19:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋