I have this friend I used to work with. We've known eachother for years and I've had feelings for him for a VERY long time. We fight a lot... never really got along well... argue about stupid things. But, despite our problems, I've always found him to be really sweet and charming. I thought that, once we didn't work together anymore, we also wouldn't talk. But he won't let that happen. He still IMs me and comments on my pictures online saying I'm cute and such (he's a big flirt). We will go WEEKS without talking and I'll start to forget just how much I love him. But then we'll talk again and it all comes back. He was recently there for me when I really really needed someone and it made me realize that there is no one more perfect for me than him and I don't think I'll ever get over this... but there's a problem- he HAS A GIRLFRIEND (recent development) and has no idea that I feel this way about him... and I can't tell him. I just need to know how to get over him without cutting him out
2007-02-23 11:21:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey i feel your pain. my BEST friend in the whole world (who will remain nameless) was the same way, although we didn't fight, but was/is the sweetest guy ever, always there in times of need and so forth, but he met a girl and i waited for a breakup but he ended up MARRYING HER!!!!! i thought i would never get over it but then i started dating other people, and i met a great guy who I've been with for two years and couldn't be happier. my friend has been married for like 3 years now but he's still just as flirty and leaves me comments like that too, and to be honest I still have to check myself from having feelings for him! my advice> try to date other people and keep your distance from him while still maintaining the friendship, it'll get better over time, it has for me!!!
2007-02-23 11:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then maybe u dont get over him...tell him how u really feel. If he still doesnt wanna go out with u instead of that other girl then hes not worth it...move on and find some one else.
If u or any of your friends need advice on dating or just need some one to talk to my e-mail address is darklife_of_love@yahoo.com
im always here and im always online.
2007-02-23 19:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by darkness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love and ruining your life? Being in love is suppose to be a happy and cheerful time. If you don't feel that way, walk away and don't look back. Life is too short its only one life on earth. Why be unhappy over something you can change?
2007-02-23 19:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by David A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about the way u feel and if he deosnt try to do something to try and get with u then drop him and his gf and move on ... then u know he wasnt worth it : D
2007-02-23 19:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by r_h_89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting yourself a man. one that is sweet and charming and always keep you on your toes. there is no way you'll ever think about that other guy again
2007-02-23 19:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like a guy that has a lot of consistency, but if you love him then I'd say go for it!
2007-02-23 19:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to stay away from him for a period of time and start going out to places where youll meet new people and youll get over it!!
2007-02-23 19:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_latina_81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. Its not love its that he fills a void no otherman is fulfilling.
2007-02-23 19:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Danthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like you are very happy with this guy..
plus he has a girlfriend....
not good on both sides of this fence.
2007-02-23 19:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
sounds to me like you need to find somebody who loves and appreciates you
2007-02-23 19:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋