2007-02-23 11:20:04 · 33 answers · asked by Broken21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is it hard to find a good guy for a nice girl? im a nice girl, and most guys i know have no respect... im not saying all guys are like that, and most girls are probably too silly to realise wat kinda mess they're in with bad boys. i feel the same way u do. i wish more nice guys would pop out once in a while. the girls will too!
2007-02-23 11:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Abz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"It's not that nice guys finish last, they just get in everyone else's way..." Jimmy the Bartender
Jimmy is a bartender from NY and has done articles for Men's Health and a small book. Jimmy says, "practice being a polite guy, not a nice guy." Do you realize the difference?
You'll be a lot more effective if you figure it out. I think the reason girls prefer a 'bad *** guy,' and I'm not talking about as a result of bad tacos with refried beans, come on you know what I mean, because girls can get more with a more aggressive guy. Meaning, if the girl wants something, she feels she is more apt to get it with a guy who's aggressive and (in her mind) will pursue something aggressively for her. Does this make sense? I feel it's how they are wired. When is the last time you knew a girl really wanted something and wasn't willing to do whatever it took to get it? Aggressive guys just think along the same line as girls do. Guys chase beauty more often as a form of "power" and girls chase, well, what can get them what they want easier for the same thing. Peace.
2007-02-23 11:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Heywood J Helpaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see the term GIRL should answer your question. If you are a mature young man who is neat, clean, well educated, polite, well spoken , earns a reasonable living wage, and can hold an intelligent conversation then you have got to get away from the GIRLS and start looking at the WOMEN. Look for someone a little bit older than yourself. My son is 25, his wife is 25 they get along great. His close friend is very different he had to basically take care of himself from a young age. He is mature, he is intelligent, he enjoys cultured events and places. His wife is 15 years older than he is. Neither wants children, they love each other very much, she looks much younger than she is but he never had an interest in girls his age or younger, never had anything in common with them.
2007-02-23 11:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Only hell mama ever raised 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is not that much of a big deal I mean i am sure that you are a nice guy but I mean some times you maybe too nice I mean there are limits to every thing and when you are to nice i.e over expectation then the girl is going to think that you have something from behind. so and most girls like it when a guy mistreats them I don't know why but i mean they say they can't find a nice guy but they wouldn't like it when there is one in front of them.
2007-02-23 11:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so not true. Nice guys may seem like the kind of people who none of the girls care about because they like the bad boys, but that's completely off. There are a whole chunk (yes, im using the word "chunk" lol) of girls who like nice guys, you just have to keep looking. Anyway, the girls who end up with the bad boys are most likely to ruin their lives.
2007-02-23 11:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I know this one... been there done that.... girls want a bad boy... they like trouble with a capital "T" ! Try finding an older gal... maybe 2 or 3 years your senior ! Or you can act a little reckless around a new prospect... just to give her the impression of being just a little bad... sometimes a little is better than none at all !
2007-02-23 11:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not hard if you know what you are looking for in a girl. You're just like me I'm looking for some one to. But if you cant find anyone then learn about someone on the Internet.Like me.
2007-02-23 11:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mexican Gangsta 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nice guys also tend to be shy or introverted. That means they are less likely to initiate contact, and are less likely to get out and meet people.
They are less likely to take risks, and so are less likely to end up with results.
Same applies to good girls. That is why it is so difficult for the two to find each other, because they both tend to be nervous and less likely to take the first step.
2007-02-23 11:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the 'woman thing' is a ridiculous, impossible waste of time; they want everything perfect and are always looking for something (someone) better; they pretend they are so virtuous and pure - they'll stab you in the back, dump you for the most idiotic reasons, tell their stupid girlfriends all of your personal stuff; there are few if any "good girls"; use hookers - it's cheaper and a lot less hassle and heartache
2007-02-23 11:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being a 'nice guy' isn't all it takes to get a girl. You have to be at least decent looking, have some sort of personality and not be a total looser. - I'm not insinuating that you are any of these things.
2007-02-23 11:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋