she liked me but could not tell me. her friend told me. but i am so shy that i am afraid to go to her and ask her. and so long she tried to talk to me a lot. she used to say HI all the time to me.
but i was shy. yes, i said HI too. but could not tell her that i liked her too.
that day i did something to her. when she went out of the class, i pulled out her ear phone out of her ear. and went away at that time i was not shy. but after pulling out the ear phone i felt really shy and did not even look at her and went away. and today she did not even looked to me.
did i really lost her. i was waiting for a good moment
did she got angry!!!!!!!!!!!
or did i put her in a odd situation
this is the first time i fall in love with some one
i dont know what to do
we know each other for 7 months. i never talked to her a lot in these 7 months.
plz help !!!!! i dont wanna loose her
she is indian
2007-02-23 10:42:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its ok. you didnt mess things up too much. you to start off with saying sorry for pulling it out and say that you wanted to talk to her but then realized you were too shy. shy is cute in a guy! it makes them sweeter. then you need to say you like her. just say it close your eyes or look away. you only ever get shy when you look at tehm. if you cant see her face then you wont know how she reacts but you know she likes you so that wont be an issue. then look at her and say how do you feel? another thing you could do if use your phone and type it in and pass her the phone. sit next to her and you can have like a little convo. say this is the only way you could tell her because your so shy, then she can reply if she's too shy to tell you. you need to get over the shy part. whats the worst thing that could happen! its not like speaking up about it to her is gonna kill you or anything. it will be fine, just take a big deep breath and close your eyes and picture you happy together and that should be a good enough reason to tell her! dont you wanna get the girl? good luck!
2007-02-23 10:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably had a moment of confidence and felt really sure about everything, pulling out her earplug sounds spontaneous. It's OK to be spontaneous after getting to know each other a little more ,actually it's really nice. I'm not an expert but I would explain to her that you were in a very good mood that day and if it bothered her in any way ,ask her if she would like to go out or something, and then tell her that you are attracted to her and hopefully she feels the same way.Sounds like she was really taken off guard when you did that.
2007-02-23 19:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by deborah h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg. You did not lose her. Go talk to her. I don't know. Call her or something. This is like the exact situation my friend is in now. She's Indian too. Her nickname is Siree.
GO TALK TO HER!!! YOU CAN DO IT!!!!
:)
Good luck!!!!
2007-02-23 18:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, dont worry. Just try and talk to her, she'll understand that your shy. And she won't be angry at you! Just go for it! Good Luck!
2007-02-23 18:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by bean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it you are shy you could always write her a note and give it to her, or talk to her friend and let her know. but don't wait to long or she may think you don't like her. just be yourself
2007-02-23 18:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her i had d same problem wiv dis boi and i talked to him trust me if u both like each other go 4 it
btw fnx for dah coment u left on my question u seem luvly
2007-02-24 08:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was an accident, she'll understand if you tell her! If it was on purpose, shame on you!!!!!! Just go up to her, tell her that you're sorry, that you didn't mean it, and she'll probably say somehting like, oh, that, that was nothing.
ask her out!!!!! Totally
2007-02-23 19:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls and talk to her.
2007-02-23 18:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Right_Tonight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends with her please....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-23 18:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋