theybe been going out for about a week now.
sometimes i think he doesnt even like her :S but i dont know
my friends tell me to stop liking him as if it were up to me... im trying to forget about him
i dont wanna ruin their relationship, but do you think i might still have a chance?
have you ever liked someone who is already in a relationship? what happened? please help this never happened to me!
2007-02-23 10:36:31 · 19 answers · asked by sofia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok for all of you who think im trying to break their relationship, im not
im not doing anything im not even flirting with him!
gosh what did i say wrong? im only 15 and i try not to sit around them because it hurts seeing them together sometimes
if you have nothing nice to say please dont say anything at all :S
2007-02-23 10:42:04 · update #1
You just need to respect the fact that they are together. The more you worry about them, the longer it's going to take you to get over him.
While I understand it may be hard, you've got to realize that if you indeed have any chance at all, you're more likely to get that chance because you were a laid back friend who was there as just the friend and not "that girl" who tries to get between people. I'm not saying you're trying to come in between them, I'm just saying it'll look better for you if they do break up one day.
Until that day happens... on its own, just sit back and be a friend and nothing more. Respect gets people a long ways.
With all that being said, it's important to also keep in mind that if he ends up leaving her for you, then there's a good chance he'll have no qualms about leaving you for someone else.
Just have fun being a teenager! You'll have more than enough time to worry about boys later. Good luck!
2007-02-23 10:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do: Don't give up on him quite yet. If there are any signs at all that he doesn't like her, get a close friend to consult him about it, or ask him yourself. Talk to his girlfriend about it, and maybe there's a chance that you can break them up for a good reason, like keeping her from getting hurt. And then let time rest for a while, untill they BOTH recover (its best when his girlfriend finds someone new) and then you can squeeze in and see if there is any chance of him liking you.
2007-02-23 10:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience (real life) has been that if a guy will leave his girlfriend for you, then he will leave you for someone else. Maybe not right away, but it will happen. My advice is, chill out on it for a while, and if they break up, wait a week or two and then let him know you're interested. If they don't break up, then consider it a sign that your man is someone else. Good luck!!
2007-02-23 10:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by LN 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like a girl who has a boyfriend. I tried and tried everything to get them to break up. Nothing works they will break up when there ready. Patience is the only answer here.
2007-02-23 10:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get through it that happened to me a few times. actualyl most recently that exactly happened to me. the exact situation. i thought i had a chance to cause he sometimes acted like he dind't liek her but its not true there still going out so u can't do anything about it. i just got through it not trying to 4get him just not saying that i like him keeping it a secret. when i stopped talkinga bout him i sort of got over him and now i fell for some1 else..and him and i r still firends there still together. i still like him lil more than a friend but my advice is. wait it out u can't really do anything about it.
2007-02-23 10:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Life is hard enough in a relationship without a sl*t trying to break it up.
2007-02-23 10:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by suicidal_chicky 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whether you have a chance or not. He's off limits and you don't want a reputation for man stealing.
you don't have to stop liking him just know your bonds
Good luck
2007-02-23 10:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by tasha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like the girl who cuts my hair. Young, tall, beautiful, great body. Her only problem is a husband. Oh well. Thank God for masturbation!
2007-02-23 10:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up - he's got a girl.
About your additional commnents - If you are going to post you need to understand that you will have people that disagree with you. You are not in a position to say who can and cannot answer your questions. Again, I say grow up
2007-02-23 10:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just leave him alone.If he will cheat on his girl with you then theres a big chance he'll do the same once you two get together. Good luck
2007-02-23 10:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋