ok...this a stupid question to ask..but..
i like this guy he likes me back but the thing is im purposely not tlking to him cos ...
1) Im shy 2) My mum has this thing that she doesnt want me to date til im 18 so im like avoiding him n trying to sumhow make sure nothin happens between (kinda childish i kno) ..which kinda sux cos im 15 coming on 16.
the thing thats really annoying is that well school ends in may/june so i might neva see him....EVER AGAIN so im running outta time to make a decision.
wot should i do?
do i continue NOT to talk to him so that nothing can EVER happen between us n start dating wen im 18 or should i date him NOW?
2007-02-23 10:29:37 · 10 answers · asked by W H I T E [ s k y * ] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were friends at first, then it started it to get complicated
2007-02-23 10:40:20 · update #1
be friends don't avoid him and when or if you get serious tell him you don't want to get too serious.
First things first SCHOOL
go to school and worry about that you need a college education to make it comfortably in life now.
and if you don't want s*x then let him know after awhile
if he likes you or loves you he wont want to pressure you
2007-02-23 10:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not parents know what they're doing. Try talking to your mom and tell her you like this guy and would like for him to come over and meet her. If the guy says no way he's not worth it. Not talking to him is no good either. And if you're worried that you'll never see him again exchange phone numbers. But what ever you do do NOT date him behind your mom's back. That will damage your relationship with her and you could end up in things you are sooo not ready for.
2007-02-23 10:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to tell u if I was u. I wouldnt stop talking to him. I mean why? If he does ask u on a date make sure to tell the truth dat yur mother dusnt want u dating yet. Mayebe he`ll understand. Just chat wit him!? And if u want to u can date him but tell yur mom first or ask her but what i would do is give her a note asking if yur 2 scared 2 come up front with her! GOODLUCK!
2007-02-23 10:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by I'm Anonymous, 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance and talk to him and try to get to know him a little not by his looks and never disobey your mother so maybe you guys should first start off as freinds b/c that is usually how the best relationships start off and last a lifetime so take it slow and "try not to rush into things you have the rest of your life ahead of you" like my mother always says. and trust me it will all work out best of luck!!!
2007-02-23 10:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like the song by Will Smith, "Parents just dont understand"
i say that you should date him because, frankly, it shouldnt matter what your parents think about who or when you date. that should be up to you because if you miss out, then your gonna really regret it (sorta like the song "Seize the day" by Avenged Sevenfold)
2007-03-02 16:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by need to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him and trust him as you would like him to trust you; if he is the right guy for you, he will wait until you are allowed to date.
2007-02-23 10:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date now.. just go for it !! later in life u'll think about all these things!
one day your gonna say " why the f*** was i shy!?!?!!!"
2007-02-23 10:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DATE DATE DATE
no unsafe sex though
2007-03-02 10:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by yety21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date by sneaking around:)
2007-02-23 10:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what every teenager does... ignore parent and go for it!
2007-02-23 10:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋