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I'm a sophmore in HS and there is this cute freshman in my last period study....I want to ask her out, but she prolly doesn't even know my name let alone who I really am...what do I do?? What would most girls like or want to asked like...help me

2007-02-23 10:21:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

26 answers

become Friends with her first....if she is walking alone catch up to her and talk about your class or something going on at school.
Get her to warm up to you and feel comfortable with you first before you ask her out.

2007-02-23 10:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Marissa C 2 · 0 0

Well, I can help you with that first of all I think you don't have that much confidence in yourslef because if you do you would had ask her out. But thats okay. If you that afraid write her love letter its always sweet to get love letters, or become her friend not to good of friends though try to talk to her every once in a while. Like tell her you look very pretty today well you always look pretty to me. Or ask her how old she is, or do she have a boyfriend or ask her do she want to see a certain movie. For example.... I saw this cool movie on a preview it seems very funny are you going to see it. Don't ask her out to the movies are anything just ask her is she going to see it. And just pop up then it may end up as a date without you asking her. Or ask her did she every seen a certain movie. I hope this helps!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-23 18:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You should smile at her at every opportunity, this will show interest and a girl find sweetness in a smile. You should leave her secret notes like, I think you look beautiful today and/or I would love to hang out sometime...trying to get the nerve to ask. This will not only make her feel very happy and special but have her thinking of who would do such a kind thing. Now is your chance... wait until Friday and approach her. Now introduce yourself, tell her I hope you have been getting my notes:) (this breaks the ice and stirs up a converation, you will be comfortable) Tell her you would love to hang out with her if she is available and give her a rose:) This will totally sweep her off her feet and make you stand out from anyone else that has ever approached her. It also shows respect and how interested you are in getting to know her. Good Luck... when I was in high school I would have loved for someone to do that. Girls love a romantic side....

2007-02-23 18:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by imissrascal 3 · 0 1

Pay attention to the things she likes; music, school subjects, sports, etc. Approach her at lunchtime, before a class, after a class, before school, after school, in PE class, whenever she isn't surrounded by a bunch of girls. I think it's ok if one of her friends is with her, but if there are alot of people around her she may be too embarrassed by you or anyone asking her on a date in front of them. One close friend wouldn't matter I'm sure.

Try approaching her with a question about some music you heard her listening to, or a question about a subject in school, maybe a class you have together. If you notice that she is particularly good at math, or some other subject, ask her if she would be willing to help you with it for an hour or so.

If you don't want to get to know her that way, then just approach her, introduce yourself, say "I noticed you like ____(some kind of music, sport, or something) and so do I! I think we probably like alot of the same things. Would you like to go out on a date with me sometime? The best way to ask a girl out is by standing in front her confidently and just ask while you are looking directly in her eyes!

2007-02-23 18:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0 0

Well, if she doesn't know your name, introduce yourself.
Sit next to her, smile, ask her what she's studying. If it's a class you've had before or are good at, offer to help her if she gets stuck on a problem. Tell her your name and ask for her.
Chat her up a few times over a week or so, then ask her if she'd like to hang out or get some coffee after school, or however it is kids at your school casually date.

2007-02-23 18:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0 0

Until you talk with her and get to know her better, there is no way of knowing if she likes you too so get going and at least start saying hi to her each day, before you think of asking her out.

2007-02-23 18:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by mom tree 5 · 0 0

First of all get to know her, try to talk to her. Then just keep building the relationship from there. Then when you feel comfortable ask her to a movie!

2007-02-23 18:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by yea yea 1 · 0 0

it can't hurt to put yourself out there and engage in friendly flirting. the only thing you have to fear is rejection, and it's not as bad as everyone makes it out to be.

if she responds well to your flirting, then go for it! ask her if she wants to hang out after school. if you're kind of shy it might be best to go on a group date, with friends you're comfortable with. otherwise, ask her if she's interested in a movie that's coming out.

i remember being a 9th grade girl, i was shy around upper-class guys and i would have never thought they were into me. it wasn't until *they* made the first move that i opened up and started flirting. good luck!

2007-02-23 18:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by chi 2 · 0 1

Start by bringing in a small flower, go up to her and say, "Hi, " and give it to her, smile at her and go sit with your friends. She will want to find out what your name is and who you are.

2007-02-23 18:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0 0

think of something really cute and original... girls love originality! also emabrassing urself infront of ur friends 2 ask her out is a good way too. it shows ur crazy 4 her

2007-02-23 18:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by jenn. 2 · 0 0

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