so theres this boy and for awhile we were checking each other out (like every time we saw each other) and so he finally asked me to go on a date with him...and so we did and it didnt go well because something had gone on earlier in the day that put me in a really bad mood (so it had nothing to do with him)..but he seemed really understanding about this and really sweet. And so anyway we talk on the phone now everynight and he walks me to my classes and kisses me and treats me like his girlfriend (like the things he says and does and the way he acts around me) BUT he likes one of my friends, he tells everyone he likes her and she knows he likes her but theyve never kissed and they dont talk on the phone but at school theyre always together and he flirts with her and so many girls! he seems to treat me differently but mostly when were alone and the way he looks into my eyes and the way hes shy around me (even though hes a outgoing guy) makes me feel special.
WHAT SHULD I DO?!!
2007-02-23 10:17:56 · 5 answers · asked by plzdntgoawy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wants to go out on another date tommorow night.
should i play hard to get? should i flirt with other guys too?
HOW CAN I GET HIM TO SETTLE FOR ME??
and who does he like me or my friend??
cuz she doesnt even like him and he knows that! but he knows i like him!
what the heck is going on im just really confused can anyone explain??
2007-02-23 10:21:14 · update #1
Don't lose your heart too quickly hun. there is no serious relationship between you. He's a nice guy and treats you nicely...for now... but if he's flirting and telling others that he likes your friend, chances are he does and is stringing both of you along because HE CAN!!!
2007-02-23 10:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by mom tree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is flirting with other girls than u have a problem. Ooops! I forgot. U are not his girlfriend. It's possible that u r just another one of those girls but since he knows that u like him he is putting more time into yours and his relationship than he is with the other girls. If u have problems with him and u want a bf/gf relationship then u should tell him. He can't read your mind so don't feel like because u r a girl u shouldn't make the first move. Good luck with everything.
2007-02-23 18:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart he is a player, and he is playin you, notice he only acts this way when no one is around. If he is saying he likes ur friend and not you, than dont take it personally. If he has already had s*x with u than it may be now he is tryna get some from from your friend too, and that's why he is actin like he likes her too. It seems like he is tryiing to get some from as many girls as possible and that's why he is always flirting with so many girls. From my personal experience, this man is toxic and u should stay as far away from him as possible because he wont change, at least not soon. So as hard as it may be move on and someone who appreciates u...
2007-02-23 18:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by sexyrednewyork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure he's the same way when he's alone with other girls. Is it possible that he acts that way with you in public is because you aren't very assertive and he knows he can treat you this way?
2007-02-23 18:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lost girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're lame....if he likes you so damn much - why would he like her?? Get rid of this guy and work on the growing up part. Relationships will come when you are ready, and you aren't right now.
2007-02-23 18:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋