should i run away?

Question

i dont like my parents they dont understand me i try to talk to my mother but she think i mean things in a crazy way what should i do

Answer 1

I know how you feel but you have to think about where will you end up once you run away do you even have any place to go and whats the point you always end up at home again and do you have a good reason to run away? Almost all parents don't understand their kids mine don't and nobody else that i know dose! I am sure when you have kids you will not understand them. But it is your life just don't screw it up!

Good luck!

Answer 2

You should only run away if you're being abused or neglected, and even then you should be running TO help, not just "away."

It's natural for kids and parents to misunderstand each other, so you both need to work on your communication skills. Ask your mom if you can talk with a family therapist so you can work together to make things better. You can also ask a school counselor or dean for help.

Also, when you try talking to your mother, try talking *like* your mother. Before you speak, try to think about how she would phrase the idea, then use that. It might help get your point across.

Answer 3

Running away is chickensh!t.
You need to try and talk with your parents in a calm way, try to tell them CALMLY the way you feel, the way they make you feel.
You need to understand that its a two way street.
Let them explain CALMLY how they feel, why they do what they do.
If you want them to listen to you and your feelings, you have to be able to keep your mind open and listen to theirs also.
My daughter and my wife have had huge screaming arguments, and both just end up mad and nothing gets accomplished.
When my daughter and I communicate, I keep it calm and in a discussion, not a screaming match.
Just ask your mother to sit down with you, ask her if she will talk to you about things, try and understand she is a human being just like you, not perfect, and just as emotional.
If you can keep yourself calm, and talk, things will go better, but it will take effort on your part.
And, I am sorry to say, the answer to what you want is going to sometimes be no, that's the way life is.
If she tells you no, CALMLY ask her why, and listen, really listen to her answer, try to see her side of the story.
But guess what, we parents don't always get what we want either, we hear the word no alot.
Good luck,
Running away from your problems is never the answer.

Answer 4

Don't run away. Just hold on until you finish high school. Then find a good college, maybe out of town. Life gets better when you have more control over your life. That's the part that stinks so bad about being a teenager -- you are old enough to know that things aren't right, but not old enough to fix things. Really, just hold on. I promise things will get better. The strength that you are gathering now will help you out later. Don't run away. Good luck.

Answer 5

No, If you do you may wind up in a ditch somewhere. If there is abuse you need to contact someone at school, police, or someone you can trust.

Obviously the communication is only one way and I feel sorry for you. If you have someone else you can talk to like a friend that doesnt always agrees with you, but is willing to hurt your feelings. Most parents can understand where their children come from, however things have changed since we were children. More drugs, avuse, and other things peer pressure is a big one. My only advice is to really sit down and talk, tell them you need to talk to them. Good luck

Answer 6

so you think running a way, going to help, you think your mom mean,,, you just dont know how mean thing can be out their, an if you run every time something do go the way you want ,,honest you be running the rest of your life,,, your mom love you,an want the best for you, but in the cold world out their, they don,t give a damm about you,,, so stand up an face the problem dont run a way . for ,if you dont face it now you have other one to take it place

Answer 7

sweetie, get yourself all the education your head can hold. Go through HS, College...the whole nine yards. Become who you need to be. running away from home is just running into a whole new, and worse set of problems. Life does not get solved if you run from it. Prove who you are, to your parents, to yourself. Dumb girls run away from home when stuff gets rough. Little girls run away. Children run from problems. Face your life. Smart ones stick it out, make themselves better people, and then set out to become fully grown human beings. Be smart. Be strong. Hold on to who you are. But don't leave.
I know this is not the answer you want. You want someone to say "run out of the house right this second", but I know better. Don't be dumb. Show everyone, including yourself, that you can be someone real.

Answer 8

tell your mom you want to sit down and talk to her about your life and how you feel about her.shell listen.all you need to do is stay calm and talk to your mom.what ever you do,dont run away!tell your mom you think she never listens and to her every thing is crazy talk.tell her you dont like it and try to sit down once a week and have mother-daughter bonding time.it will make the whole family happy.

Answer 9

if u can go 4 it
if u have money go for it
and if u think u can be stabled go for it
but untill then rest yo ***
and try to make things better between u and ur parents im sure it will work out good luck!!!!

Answer 10

Is there some sort of crack house or prostitutuin ring youy can seek shelter in? I hear those places treat run aways really good.

Got to be betterthen living with stuffy old mom and dad..