What if I quit my job?
2007-02-23 10:13:19 · 9 answers · asked by youallshouldusegoogle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its her body let her deal with it.
2007-02-23 10:22:22 · update #1
Why is it that women are the ones that get to choose whether to keep the baby or not but yet the guy has no choice whether to have no part in it or to want it to be aborted. I don't get it. She chose to keep it and she can keep the responsibility.
2007-02-23 10:35:46 · update #2
thats a moot point, the baby is here and its both of the parents job to raise them. stop look'n for a loop-hole. ITS A CHILD, NOT A BURDEN.
pay for your kid, yo.
as for you running... LOL!!! today, it is now a federal offense for running over state lines to avoid child support.
gone are the days of hiding til they are 18, for arrears are forever. the courts are onto all of those trick (suddenly 'laid off', quiting, etc) and the arrears keep add'n up.
State and Federal government are TIRED of parents not paying for their kids, so they passed all of these deadbeat laws. oh yeah, todays computers (cases) are all connected and will at some point find ya.
DEADBEATS
http://www.wantedposters.com/deadbeats_usa_a_to_f.htm
http://www.angelfire.com/creep/deadbeatparentssuck/
http://www.deadbeatjustice.com/list.htm
www.goodparentspay.com
CHILD SUPPORT CALCULATORS
http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/calculators.htm
http://www.alllaw.com/calculators/childsupport/
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/child-support-calculators.html
LAWS
http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/states.htm
http://www.divorcehq.com/spprtgroups.html
http://www.divorceinfo.com/statebystate.htm
http://www.divorcenet.com/states
http://www.divorcesource.com/
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/deadbeat/deadbeat.shtml
http://www.divorcecentral.com/
http://family.findlaw.com/
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/unpaid-support/support-orders-enforcement.html
http://www.divorcehq.com/deadbeat.html
http://www.divorceinfo.com/
http://www.divorceinanutshell.com/
http://www.lawchek.com/Library1/_books/domestic/qanda/childsupp.htm
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-laws/state-child-/
http://www.supportguidelines.com/resources.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/links.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/laypersons.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/articles/news.html
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-basics/
http://www.spiesonline.net/deadbeat.shtml
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/index2.html
FINDING DEADBEATS
http://www.wantedposters.com/skiptrace.htm
http://find.intelius.com/search-name.php?ReportType=1&
http://www.discreetdata.com/index.html
http://www.identitycrawler.net/people_search.html
http://www.efindoutthetruth.com/
http://www.peoplefinders.com
http://zabasearch.com/
FED AGENCIES
http://www.ncsea.org/
http://www.nfja.org/index.shtml
http://www.naag.org/issues/issue-consumer.php
REGIONAL FEDERAL CHILD SUPPORT OFFICES
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/oro/regions/acf_regions.html
FACTS AND REGIONAL FEDERAL CS OFFICE INFO
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/fct/fct4.htm
http://www.divorcesource.com/WI/ARTICLES/beaulier11.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/opa/fact_sheets/cse_factsheet.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/index.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/faq.html
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/passport.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/fop.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/faq/faq.htm
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/extinf.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/grants/grants_cse.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/index.html
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/region2/index.html
http://www.fms.treas.gov/faq/offsets_childsupport.html
http://www.govbenefits.gov/govbenefits_en.portal
http://www.fedstats.gov/qf/
http://www.fedworld.gov/gov-links.html
http://fatherhood.hhs.gov/pfs92/ch3.htm
CHILD SUPPORT LIEN NETWORK
(some states work with them)
http://www.childsupportliens.com/
COLLECTORS
http://www.supportkids.com/
http://www.supportcollectors.com/faq.php
http://www.deadbeatdadfinders.com/
http://www.deadbeatdadfinders.com/links.html
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/index2.html
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/deadbeat/deadbeat.shtml
TAX INFO
http://www.taxsites.com/index.htm
http://www.divorceinfo.com/taxes.htm
http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc354.html
http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc422.html
http://www.irs.gov/faqs/faq4-5.html
http://www.irs.gov/localcontacts/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/advocate/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p525/index.html
http://www.fms.treas.gov/faq/offsets_childsupport.html
http://money.cnn.com/2007/02/14/pf/taxes/do_not_miss_tax_breaks/index.htm?postversion=2007021411
REPORT DEADBEATS
WORKING UNDER THE TABLE
(in writing, to your local and federal IRS offices)
http://www.irs.gov/localcontacts/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/compliance/enforcement/article/0,,id=106778,00.html
2007-02-24 19:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Yvette B yvetteb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the most selfish, irresponsible statements I have ever heard. This is your child! You helped make it! It is not your wife's body, it is a person, who needs a dad to help guide and love it! You share in this responsibility, just like you shared in the sex that created this child. Step it up. Pay the child support. Don't be like every other deadbeat dad out there trying to keep from any form of responsibility.
2007-02-23 18:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by r.p. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"it's her body. Let her deal with it." ????? Unless there was a star in the east, and three wise men bringing gifts; I am pretty sure you are involved in this thing too.
Are you full grown? You must be if you have a job, and have figured out a way to do what you did to get yourself into this situation. If you put your penis into this lady, and she spread her legs to let it go in; then you are BOTH responsible for this. You shouldn't even consider abandonment.
Now see, this is the reason why abortions need to stay legal. Men like you who have no clue about responsible behavior; no sense of what the consequences of their actions are. And feel no connection to what they did. Shame on you. You are less than a man. You are less than a little boy. Even rats have more responsibility toward their children.
May you have all you deserve in your life. I wish that on you.
2007-02-23 18:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by the witch 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
And now you're a dad, too?! The BABY is not an "IT." Unfortunately, I can't say the same for you. Don't you have ANY sense of morality? Not even a little bit?
You don't see how "the responsibility" is yours too because you helped make the CHILD...?
You're a clear example of what's wrong with the world.
2007-02-24 23:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by toplessone19700 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step up and pay the dang support, this is for your child....Stop being a dead beat dad.
2007-02-23 18:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do. If you loose your job you still owe it. Suck it up and pay dude we all have to.
2007-02-23 18:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you still have children? You still have fatherly responsibilities.
2007-02-23 18:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter where you are you have to pay child support.
2007-02-23 18:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by brat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes,you will still owe
2007-02-23 18:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by bullhillroad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋