other guy think im cute or sexy and they keep talk to me but i have a Boyfriend i keep tell them but they won't stop and my Boyfriend keep getting mad what should i do?
2007-02-23 10:09:59 · 30 answers · asked by Brittany D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell your boyfriend to beat their @sses but it also sounds like ur boyfriend is controling so unless u love him, u should dump him.
2007-02-23 10:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are lucky enough to end up with a nice guy, he will think it's cute that you're nervous. But here is an advice, NEVER show that you are nervous. Some guys are just jerks and ******* and they will take advantage of a shy girl. You are a girl, you have to keep it "cool". You can ask questions when he talks about the subject, since usually he has to start the coversation. Also, you might wanna put on your phone note pad some topics a head of time so you wont run out of things to say and have the akward silence. Things like "what's your favorite movie types", "what do you do for fun", or even a past experience that could spark a conversation like going to disney for example or something that went good or wrong during a party. The thing to remember is never put too much pressure on yourself, you are the girl. It's the guy who should be trying to impress you, most of the pressure should be on the guy.
2016-05-24 03:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just give them the cold shoulder and ignore them. If you have to get a bit mean about it do it, they have absolutley no buisness to continue to hit on you once you already told them you have a boyfriend. Maybe getting him involved in the situation may chase them away too. If its happening in a workplace or at school you can threaten to file sexual harrasment charges against them, that should keep them away. Good Luck!
2007-02-23 10:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Woody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that you could do is set a boundary, say that you have a boyfriend and that he gets jealous, of course he shouldn't get mad because relationships are about trust, if he doesn't trust you then I'm sorry to say that your relationship with him won't work out. Think about it and follow your heart.
2007-02-23 10:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Loving Life, Always, and Forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is that BFs come N go. Husbands dont. They know he is just your BF so they are hoping they can steal you away. The only thing I can think of to get them to back off is. Tell them that you both plan on getting married. Unless he dont agree to that. Point is if they think you two are very serious they may (keyword may) back off. Good Luck!
2007-02-23 10:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the grand scheme of things, does this really matter? 60 or 70 years from now at your funeral, do you think there will be a crowd of old men reminiscing about how cute you were, you told them to stop talking to you, but they couldn't help themselves....??
Get over yourself.
2007-02-23 10:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you are truthful to your boyfriend, if you are then you would ignore the boys no matter how great they make you feel because it is hurting your relationship if you don't....if you rather be hit on by other guys then I would break up with your boyfriend and be single until you find out if it is what you want or not...if you decide to ignore them then let your boyfriend deal with it
2007-02-23 10:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by strgazer9113 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the dudes that keep talking to you that you want to have a baby at age 18 (as you stated in your last question) - that'll get them running away (as they should).
2007-02-23 10:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are doing nothing wrong. You tell the boys you are not interested and they keep persisting. If your boyfriend gets mad it is his problem. If he acts jealous, it means he is insecure, you have to talk to him about this, even if it is to reassure him that he is your world.
2007-02-23 10:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Curlyhair69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have your boyfriend buy you a wedding band. Tell all the other guys you are taken and show them the ring.
2007-02-23 10:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by beat_this_program 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋