parents were abusive and I am married now and the in laws ... not so nice.
2007-02-23 10:08:31 · 11 answers · asked by tina*21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ya know what...your probably gonna laugh at me or just disregard this...but Jesus loves you....He gave His life for YOU....He loves you so much He wants to be with you forever...now i know life is hard and its hard to find love but i think we should take the example of love from the One who created love...God....turn to Him..He will satisfy that longing for love.... i promise i'll be praying for you...i know how hard it is..
2007-02-23 10:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, why does it matter as long as your happy. Take your life in you hands and do the best you can without their love or acceptance.
They are the ones that will miss out on your love, devotion and all the goodness you provide. Be happy you are at this point in your life, your married to someone you love regardless of how your life started out.
I'm sure your Inlaws will learn to love and accept you, it just may take some time (I went through this also but now they finally accept me and honestly care for my well being).
Your parents however is really up to you and whether or not they've changed or are remorseful for their actions. If they've made an effort to change or apologize then you may all be on the road of recovery. If you feel they've not changed at all, I'd just move on with life without them (it's really their loss not yours). Good luck, it will get better (trust me).
2007-02-23 10:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may feel tough to break this feeling but let me suggest somethings.
Perhaps your in laws are aware of the problems between your parents and you. Or they may be of the 90% of parents who believe their child could never find a mate good enough for their child.
Overcome that by being loving and THOUGHTFULL of them.So that they will see how much you care for and respect your husband and his family. You probably didn't complement each other in your parental family let alone touch .Break the mold ! Show you care and if the touch comes touch back if a hug and tear s come hug and cry back .Attempt to be as tender hearted as your previous family was tough
2007-02-23 12:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure these people don't love you or are you exaggerating because you're depressed? Even abusive parents love their kids in one way or another. At any rate, focus on the people who do love you (spouse, friends, kids?) and who are not abusive. And find a therapist.
2007-02-23 10:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by kaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as the man you married still loves you why do you care about what his parents think
2007-02-23 10:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 13:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry bout them worry bout u and your hubbi and the people who are nice to u
2007-02-23 10:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by simply lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit caring what they think and care about what you enjoy
2007-02-23 10:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go eat worms.
They're full of protein.
2007-02-23 10:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Run away. I would.
2007-02-23 10:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋