I am young, 20 and not naive and realize it is rare, but is it possible?
2007-02-23 10:06:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh I am just curious, I dont want to marry until I am absolutely sure hes the right person.
2007-02-23 10:11:37 · update #1
i would never marry before 25. I want to finish college and start my career first.
2007-02-23 10:19:10 · update #2
yes it is possible, if the circumstances are right. if that person and you are in love with each other and the love was never lost, and you two are highly compatible, and are beautiufl, then yes.
2007-02-23 10:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by realstylesint'l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:)) I believe so. I, too, am young. And I know how it feels- the love after infatuation, the overwhelming happiness. I love my girl without a doubt. It is very possible. But marrying at 20, at such a young age, may not be such a good move. First of all, if you want to achieve the highest potential of your love life (and your own everyday life), you must be able to support it. finish your education first. including college. Get a good, paying job that hopefully you like to do. If you want both of you to be happy, don't make the mistake of hurrying things. First learn to support(financially and emotionally). There's one dreadful thing that comes out of this hastiness- divorce. Don't let your self go over your head- love truly, but also love smart.
I am a thirteen year old kid. But i have met my own true love. If i believe it is possible for me and her, then it is definitly possible for you and your person. Just don't hurry things. Hope this helped.
2007-02-23 10:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by streetballplayah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very possible. I started seeing jacob, my current fiance, when we were just in eighth grade, while doing on of those home-ec projects where you have to be "married" haha. We both dated a couple of other people, but by the time we were 17, we were back together for good, and we're getting married in April. We're both 21. Youth has nothing to do with naivety. we have both been through a ton of stuff together, mostly difficult family issues, and we have both grown very mature. Good luck dearest, just be careful. some people do start to wonder what it would be like with someone new...but we never have, and I hope your life together is successful.
2007-02-23 10:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's possible, I don't know how long it would last. Our life expectancy now is like 80, so that means that you will be with that person for 60 years. In 60 years, you and your spouse will change, realize things that you have not yet realized, and learned. It is possible to marry anyone, but the question should be "can we stay together for as long as we live?"
2007-02-23 10:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pluto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did at age 15. Was married to him for 13 years and had 4 children.
2007-02-23 10:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by countrytodamax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible. You are right. It is rare. My parents did it. They were actually best friends and got engaged before they ever dated. I know it's odd, but my dad loved my mother for years. He asked her out and she turned him down. A couple years later, he asked her to marry him and she accepted. It was after that they officially dated. They will be married 30 years, next June.
Yes, it's possible. But, don't be blinded by the thrill of first love. You may find it, but don't think that it can be your ONLY love. It's not so much the first love that matters, it's the last one. ;-)
Amanda
2007-02-23 10:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally possible! We all think that because everyone is getting divorced and married 3-4 times that we have to have more then one love, but why should it be that way! If you love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with that person then do it! Your just one of the luck people who found there love early! Congrats
2007-02-23 10:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister did they went with each other, split up met other people, but got back together again and married they were each others first love They are married 25 years and have two boys
2007-02-23 10:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I am also 20, and I am going to be married to my first and only love.
2007-02-23 10:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. It didn't happen to me or to my husband. But I know some couples that loved each other early in life and got married and are still together now, even one couple that faced insurmountable odds their career had placed them in. It is very possible!! Good Luck!!
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2007-02-23 10:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is! I married mine at the age of 19 and 25 years later he is older, grayer and still very forgetful, but I still love him and if he is away will speak to him on the phone every couple of hours.
In our lives we have had everything thrown at us, but we face every challenge together.
2007-02-23 10:10:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋