I have to write a term paper in my sociology class and I need peoples input on which is better and why? If you had a choice which would you prefer? Just need some good answers.
2007-02-23 09:56:49 · 16 answers · asked by CoCo Chanel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well with casual sex you stand the chance of contracting an STD more than you would if you were in a relationship. With casual sex you would never know whether the person you were with actually cared anything about/for you or if they were just using you. At least in a relationship you have some guarantee that they care. I prefer to have sex when I'm in a relationship than just being some man's receptacle for his bodily fluids.
2007-02-23 10:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casual sex moves laterally. The relationship never changes because it's just sex and either person can meet someone at any time and abandon the arrangement. In the end, someone's feelings end up getting hurt. A committed relationship, however, evolves and moves forward. As the dynamics change, each person wants something more from the relationship. A commited relationship is something you can discuss openly. Texting and occasionally hanging out don't make a relationship. A grown man in his 30s does not respond to questions with juvenille things like "Why are you being mean?" If he wants things to develop into a real relationship, then he'll do what he has to do to make it into one. He sounds like he wants things to remain the same with you, but he still wants to keep his options open. If he isn't having sex with anyone else now, it doesn't mean that he won't find someone else. Good luck to you.
2016-05-24 03:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the casual sex deal because every time would be different and not the same old boring thing that I had last time. Also, when I am done I have the luxury of wiping off on the curtains, getting dressed and walking out the door as I mention that I forgot that I needed to get some gas or something rather than having to spend any additional time with the girl.
2007-02-23 10:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer (and have) a relationship. Casual sex does nothing but leave the parties empty, with no connection, love or respect for each other. They are there to get some and leave. A serious relationship allows both parties to understand each other, to grow in intimacy and trust with each other. They are more committed to the other person's well-being and pleasure than their own.
2007-02-23 10:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Outside of marriage is only hurting yourself and the other's. "Casual" continually removes you farther from meaningful until one developes more and more difficulty making a truely loving bond. "Love" is a spiritual experience, encompassing a deep caring for another; a SINCERE desire for the welfare of the OTHER. Casual sex is only interested in the gratification of the SELF. And when the sheets are dry, that is all one has- a physical self-gratification. The capacity for deep spiritual connection with another human soul and one's own creator becomes dampened and even numbed. A callous heart developes, thus, removing one yet further from one's own spirituality. And we are spiritual beings. This is what makes us different from the animals: notice how casual their sex is?
2) Pregnancy. Every soul desrves to live. Every child deserves two LOVING parents that have the ability to nurture a new life. 3) Disease
4) Bad standing with one's Creator...(death)
2007-02-23 10:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your single, you'ld definelty prefer NSA ( no string attatched ) sex, but that's very hard to find, women feel like w h o r e s if they do, men ( most ) don't have that issue
but what tends to happen regardless is that one side get emotionally attached, and therefore want a relationship with sex
the other aspect of NSA sex is that it tends to be more frequent but less passionate, more heat
with a relationship it's the opposite, as a women will use a sex as a tool to lure in a man, only to back off to hopefully ( for her anyways ) make him see the real side of her ( her essence if you will ) and being viewed as a passionate lover verse a w h o r e is ultimately her goal, as she thinks she can keep a man with this
2007-02-23 10:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would choose to be in the relationship mainly cause you have a sence of being filled. as apose to being in a lustful relationship w/ someone where you feel full for a time and then it goes away. also in a relationship you learn from one another, w/ just sex all you learn is a new position.
2007-02-23 10:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long term relationship because you are only with one person that you can love and share things with and possible get married.
2007-02-23 10:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my casual sex "relationships" and that was just because I couldnt fin a decent guy for a serious relationship. now I have my prince charming and I wouldnt trade him for the world!
2007-02-23 10:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
M&J studies have proven that relationships yield more sex and better sex than casual...look it up
2007-02-23 10:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by dotcombust007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋