we met at a party and our first date was wine, board games, movies, and you know what at his place. we've never gone out anywhere and he always wants me to come to his place, never to mine. i dont complain b/c it's convenient for us both, and i always come over late and leave early in the morning. we have great chemistry and always seems to satisfy each other, plus we dont even mind cuddling, talking, and watching tv afterwards. however, his first child was born a couple of years ago and i didnt find out about it until he was almost a year old when i began noticing baby stuff around his place. not sure why it wasnt there sooner but he's a handsome man with a degree, job, money, etc. and he'll be 32 at the end of the year, but he's still single. i never see signs of another woman living with him and his phone never rings when i come over, but im sure im not the only one...maybe? he even takes care of his child and spends time with him, but do you think he'll ever settle down with me?
2007-02-23 09:52:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has another woman that's not sucking his dick and she knows about you. just realize you are only a long term booty call and nothing more. At 32 he should have a degree and a job. You need better priorities and better men to go after.
2007-02-23 09:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tyree D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You called it what it is. It's a booty call relationship. That is no relationship. That is physical attraction and very little else. A guy that would treat a woman and nothing more than someone to have sex with isn't someone that is worth your time. You may think you have feelings for him, but if he truly cared for you, he would have made a committment a long time ago.
Don't you care about yourself more than that? Don't you believe you are worth more than someone that only wants you for one thing? You may be handsome, has a good job, and a degree, and everything else you want. But there is one major thing he lacks, respect for you as a person and as a woman.
Amanda
2007-02-23 10:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On first impact, No, it appears like he has a large subject going and needs to maintain issues precisely the place they are. If he has a baby and isn't with the female, then he's customary with of all with regard to the perils of dedication (baby help, administration over his schedule, putting different's priorities only before his), etc... adult adult males tend to be fairly clean while there is somethig they choose that they do no longer seem to be getting. If he hasn't instructed you over and over returned that he needs a committment with you risk is he would not. positioned your self in his shoes and attempt to be uncomplicated, what does could benefit with the aid of "settling down" it rather is very well worth the threat (alimony, baby help, loss of freedom, taking a 50% risk that he will lose of 0.5 of each little thing he has labored for his finished existence, issues of having 2 diverse little ones from 2 diverse women human beings.) Is it rather very well worth the hazards for him?
2016-11-25 19:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man has steady lover he doesnt need to have someone around,, I would be cautious though that you are the only one and it should be something that is talked about, I would say I dont mind being a bootie call as long as I am the only one,
2007-02-23 09:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it. It sounds as though he is simply using you. The fact that you go over to his place late and leave early makes your situation sound more like a call girl than a girlfriend, and he hasn't even had the respect for you to tell you about his child's mother?!? I would suggest breaking it off with him and start looking for someone who has respect and love for you.
2007-02-23 09:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, wake up, yes this is a booty call, have you ever been out of the house together? If he was going to be honest, why did he not tell you about the baby when you first met. have you ask him where is this relationship heading?
2007-02-23 10:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by sonya h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that what you want in a relationship just a bootie call? I mean it may satisfy you but for how long? No I dont think so... your just there to comfort his loneliness...cmon be what your worth you dont need temporary.... You deserve way better mate. MOVE ON!
2007-02-23 09:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wasting your time unless a jump in the hay is all you want. If it is why not branch out, this one is going nowhere and you never know who you will find.
2007-02-23 10:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by George 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he settle down with you when you go over there and he gets what he wants.
2007-02-23 09:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why buy the whole cow, if the milk is free????
2007-02-23 10:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋