who to believe.then this year a guy named julien boone flirts with me and my friends thinks he likes me. when i talk he looks at me and he always calles me a chicken head 4 fun. inow im starting to like him and i dont know what to do. i want him to make the first move b/c im afraid to do it.. after all boys are supposed to make the 1st move right? later on i get a myspace and my crushez(julien) couzin tells me julien likes me and then he says its benjamin 9my other classmate). i ask julien and he says benjamin likes me. anyway julien flirts wit me and my friend asks him if he likes me and he says no. then my friendz still thinks he likes me cuz he flirts wit me still! i dont know what to do pleaze help me?
2007-02-23 09:50:40 · 12 answers · asked by loveable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did have that exact same problem a couple of days ago! im a guy though. i was flirting with a girl alot but after a while i realized that i didnt like her, but i thought i liked her! i found another girl that i met and we are dating curerently and she was the best choice i have ever made! if i were you(which im not) i would wait a while before making a desicion on what to do so you know you will be happy with your choice and live happy!
2007-02-23 09:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cory C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I don't know how young you are, but my guesses are you are still in high school. Do you really think that you are only worth something or pretty if you have a boyfriend? If that is the case, then every single woman out there is worth nothing.
Stop trying to find yourself in a guy. You are young. That much I can tell by the way you talk (using cuz, b4, pleaze, and other slang). Stop believing that you need a guy in order to be happy or feel pretty. If you have a boyfriend, and suddenly everything is good, what happens if he breaks up with you? You need to be confident in who you are right now as a young woman before you EVER date someone. Figure out who you are first, then worry about dating someone. Be confident first.
Please, please, stop believing you need a guy to be happy. That is such a lie. If your friends tell you that you are pretty, then maybe, just maybe, you need to start believing them for yourself.
Amanda
2007-02-23 17:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, I'd believe your friends. If they're your friends then they most be telling the truth. As for this guy, Jullien, don't worry, I can tell by the way u describe him that he must be between 14 and 18 (tho, 19 sounds still like that). A man most make the first move, no matter what. so dont worry, keep yourself busy with whatever u have to do, and keep on with ur life, this guy, Jullien, needs to grow up. n u don't want someone like him with u ;)
2007-02-23 18:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by ironman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course this Julien is going to deny his feelings towards you to your friends. The only person hes going to tell is either his best friend or in your case his cousin. If I were you I would go up to him and ask him straight up. I know it's going to be hard but like what my best friend tells me is that "You only have one life to live and to live it to the fullest". Whats the worst that can happen??? That he won't like you, but than if that happens than you will know the truth. Good Luck :)
2007-02-23 17:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by littlenikki57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably really pretty but everyone looks at theirselves differently then other people. You can be pretty and never had a boyfriend, and the guy doesnt always have to make the first move, sometimes they'd rather have you do it.
2007-02-23 17:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to guys though your friends
its cowardly
if you think julian likes you go for it
and personaly you should talk to the ben dude and ask him how he feels instead of going though his friends
yeah friend talk is bad your friends might change what was said just because they can
the end
talk to ben
talk to julian maybe he will start to see how awesome you are
and tell julian's cousin to but out!!!
there!
sovled one proablem
2007-02-23 18:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you. but i recommend not going out w/ him. sounds like he can't be honest w/ himself. he could emotionally hurt you in the future. either that or he's just nervous about you and feels he should hide his true feelings with ignorance....
2007-02-23 17:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Carley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a boyfriend doesn't mean that you are pretty, it only means you have a boyfriend.
2007-02-23 17:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, guys aren't always supposed to make the first move..
2007-02-23 17:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So go get one
2007-02-23 17:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋