i never been with a man, but when i day dream thats all i think about. does this make me gay or just confussed. I to scared to tell my g/f. what should i do?
2007-02-23 09:50:23 · 13 answers · asked by rick k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think it depends on how you feel about your girlfriend/other women? Are you attracted to her/them sexually? Is your relationship more a platonic one? Sometimes gay guys make the best of friends, cause generally they tend to be into the same thing. I am somewhat of a "fag-hag" for lack of a better word, and my gay boyfriends make great companions, so much that I love to hang out with them. However, I am not in love with them. Is this the case for you and your lady friend?
Maybe your just being to tough on yourself, and your just curious. I don't think there is any harm in it. If you love her though, I am not sure that I would tell her. It may freak her out.
Remember they are only fantasies, that is until you act on them. What ever you decide follow your heart, Good Luck.
2007-02-23 10:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by NeNe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay don't listen to those other crazy answers first of all. It is only natural of human kind to sometimes explore our wants and desires or fantasies through dreaming. Its called a release dream, which can be any where from a fight to sex in the dream. Were you more at ease after these dreams as if you kind of got something out of your system? Just because you dream of being with someone else does not mean you are guilty or wrong. This is more common than you think. I am a lesbian and I tend to dream about men sometimes but does not mean I will go be wiyh one. Ihave an awesome dream book you should chck out that may give you some more clarity about dreams.
2016-05-24 03:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belive you are just confused... You must do some soul searching and find yourself. It sounds to me you are on teh feance when it coems to your sexuality and tehre is nothing wrong with that.
Search in your heart find what you really want and do it. I do belive that if your thoughts or feelings pergress then you should tell your girlfriend. She desearves that much right?
and dont be scared if you are gay then your girlfriend will probably stay by yourt side as your friend, but you gotta think its probably going to be as hard on her as it will be for you.
I wish you all the luck.
2007-02-23 09:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by Britt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoow, wow, men dreaming about men. Look at a really ugly guy and get your obsession over it!
2007-02-23 09:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by love, Audrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you still sexually attracted to her too? You might be bi. It's a tough call, because in fantasy a lot of people fantasize about the same sex but that doesn't mean they want them in reality.
2007-02-23 09:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Your true nature will come out eventually. You should not get seriously involved with anyone until you know for sure.
2007-02-23 09:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r a rope smoker. come out the closet and tell the ol lady that u like pipe as much as she does. maybe she can hoop u up.
2007-02-23 09:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think about women sometimes...and that doesn't make me gay, i am married. I think it makes you curious. No harm.
2007-02-23 09:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eeeewwwww.....
but then again...why not tell her, cause with the type of man you are, I'm sure she daydreams about them too
2007-02-23 09:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe ur bi, and that's okay...in time everything will work out and u will figure out what to do...
2007-02-23 10:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋