I've known the guy I like for around 6 years now. I've liked him for about a year now, and I still can't read, him as far as if he likes me other than just friends or if he's just a nice guy. And the guy who really likes me, who I grew up with, and am good friends with, I'm not attracted to. Seems to be a pattern with me. Why is that? I'm tired of going around in circles. I'm not ready to settle down, I just can't keep waiting for the guy of my dreams, to realize that I might just be the one he's been waiting for. I don't want the guy that likes me to get hurt, either, by falling for me...which he's already doing...
What do I do?
2007-02-23 09:43:30 · 4 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're young, beautiful, and have a lot of yrs. to find the right guy. Stop worrying because it's when you stop looking is when it usually happens. Try being brave and just ask the one you like if he likes you...you can do it in a creative way or be direct. I know rejection is not easy to take but if he's not into you then it's better you find out now and can move on. Sometimes guys are so clueless and they can't read you either. He may be too shy to approach you or give you any kind of a hint. Good luck.
2007-02-23 09:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by Nose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you start sth with the guy he likes you you will most probably hurt him since you don't feel the same way. talk to the other guy you have nothing to lose. but never compromise.people end up get hurt
2007-02-23 17:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by chance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends w/ the guy who likes you... but dont seem interested.. show signs of interest to the guy you do like.... everything will fall into place.
2007-02-23 17:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Schkitzboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk and tell the one you like how you feel
2007-02-23 17:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋