Had dinner/drinks with this girl the other day -- met her about a month ago in grad school. She's just stunning and very attractive!! She asked me for drinks and reminded me like 3 times about it. When we were drinking, she immediately started asking me why I'm still single (I'm 30). I said I haven't found the right girl yet, but she prodded, and wanted to know all my wild stories. She sat next to me instead of across from me, leaned over and was completely flirtatious throughout. She even asked me about the craziest place I've had sex, and the entire conversation just flowed totally easily... and was wild without being overly creepy. To answer her question about why I'm single, I said I keep meeting girls who are taken and asked "I can't really do anything about that now, can I?". She responded saying sometimes girls don't know what's good for them, need to reminded. But she also said things are good between her and her BF. Mixed signals throughout. What did she mean? Does she like me
2007-02-23 09:41:41 · 10 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds like a sl*t...a girl who has a boyfriend won't flirt outside her relationship and have sexual conversations like she did with you. Once a cheater, always a cheater..
Imagine if you start going out with her and she finds another guy to do with what she is doing with you behind her boyfriend's back?
Stay away from girls like this...you seem like a nice guy...she just seems like a very confused girl.
2007-02-23 09:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people go all through life wanting what they don't have. Then when the opportunity arises, they get what they don't have and realize they really didn't want it in the first place. This girl is insecure in her relationship with her boyfriend and is putting out "feelers" for the next guy in her life, just in case her present relationship bombs. If you are willing to wait and see, then so be it. I would press on to find another, more meaningful relationship.
2007-02-23 09:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only she knows.
If she has a boyfriend and things are good between them leave it alone. She will come to you if things ever go awry. It sounds like she felt safe around you and was having a good time. If she was flirting and sending mixed signals then just talk to her about it. Just say something like" what did you mean other night when you said....? " Good luck!!
2007-02-23 09:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by luvmykids 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to answer that yourself, you're 30.
If you don't have qualms about seeing a cheater, then go for it, but understand that a long-term healthy relationship will not come out of it, even if she breaks up with her BF eventually. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If a long-term relationship is what you're after, tell her (directly or otherwise) she needs to break up with her BF if she wants to date you, and draw the line at friendship.
2007-02-23 09:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure sounds like it, so things are good between her and her BF. She obviously was telling you something. Why don't you ask her out on another date, see how the night(or day) progresses and you might know a little more from that date. Don't " jump the gun" just yet.
2007-02-23 09:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like a mean trick to play with you like that but just keep flirting with her and see where it goes. Maybe she's been thinking of a new guy and she told you she's got a good guy just to keep things moving slow.
2007-02-23 09:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she just wants you because she can't have you... you are attractive to her... i have the same problem thuis girl is flirtatious... but has a b/f It is so weird
2007-02-23 09:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Schkitzboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away. She sounds too confused about how she feels for you and her boyfriend for her ( and your ) own good.
2007-02-23 09:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by in_my_mind2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you, but is not willing to leave her boyfriend so either make a move or not. i think you should.
2007-02-23 09:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by L.A. WOMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it
2007-02-23 09:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋