There is a guy i like ALOT, but everyone refers to him as the player. Becouse he has screwed almost every girl in my school. Even my teachers call him a major bad @$$, becouse he gets away with sooo much. And then there is me... I am known as, "sweet and innocent", and everyone tells me that i have a georgous smile, and i could be a super model if i wanted to be. And i have been good friends with this "bad boy" for about 4 months. and he has asked me before to do things with him, and i have said no, usually he tries harder and i have to keep telling him no. But he gave up, for about a month and is being nicer to me again. Is it bad that i like him, when i know he only wants one thing from me?
2007-02-23 09:29:04 · 15 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PLEASE anwser, i need all the help i can get!
2007-02-23 09:55:48 · update #1
Stay away from this guy unless you plan on living with him in his trailer in 5 years. You are much better than he is. It frustrates the heck out of me when beautiful girls go out with these jack@sses when they know the guy is just going to treat them bad. Seems to me you already know this.
2007-02-23 09:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Paul S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never bad or good to like someone. Feelings just are. Behavior is good or bad and that is what we are judged on. It sounds to me like this person has a reputation, you need to ask yourself if you want to be part of that. If you are willing to be another one of the people he has bagged than by all means hook up, do you not beleive what they say is true, or do you think you can change him ? The choice is yours but you must know that it is easy to go from friends to lovers but almost impossible to ever go back. Weigh your options and good luck.
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2007-02-23 17:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by j.swaney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right he only wants something from you and it is SEX> so you can ether say no Or be part of his scored sheet. He sounds like a typical guy, and guys don’t change. He may even say that you are his dream girl, that he loves you and blablabla. But at the end he only want sex, and if you do it, he is going to hurt you and ruin your friendship with him. So if you want to still be his friend don’t do it.
2007-02-23 17:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all nice girls love a bad boy, but honey you will just be another notch on his bed post..get yourself a nice boy with a big smile and a big willy (sorry couldnt resist). This guy wont treat you with respect and is probably a walking STD.
2007-02-23 17:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isnt bad as long as you dont aked on it because if you do it will brake your heart and sol if you can handol his storys then yes but do not do any think with him because it will end up HETTING YOU stay away from his pans because he will end up NEVER SEE HIM AGIEN not even as a friend. so be carfall
2007-02-23 17:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by chana g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is bad bcuz your better than him and if hes a player then he doesn't really care about you and will get what he wants from someone else if you don't give it to him and even if you do he still won't care and will get from other people too
2007-02-24 22:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes honey, I would give it up. Sounds like you're to nice of a girl to be mixed up with likes of him. There is some one out there just for you, be patient.
2007-02-23 17:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Dee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its really bad if u like him bacause u cant control who u like or not....but if hes a player...well im trying to say if u go out with him and ur not screwing him than sum one else has to be......n u wont be his only girl.....trust me i was in the same situation
2007-02-23 17:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by girl u luv to hate.....lol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. give him what he wants and maybe you'll like it too! and if it's not good for u then u can tell the whole world he aint nuthin but a joke. he's prolly not all that ppl think he is.
2007-02-23 17:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u deserve someone better who wants you for more if you look like a super model u cud totally get someone better
2007-02-23 17:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋