and i really like thiz guy. i want 2 go with him but i want him 2 make the first move and he isn't doing anything. whut should i do? i think i love him and i want him to be mine. pleaze help me!
2007-02-23 09:21:58 · 20 answers · asked by eyecandie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
drop hints like "I'd love to go see that new movie" or "I have nothing to do this Saturday night, that sucks." If he's really that thick headed, try being even more blunt, "I think a cutie like you should never be afraid to ask a girl out"
He may be afraid if you're always around friends. Try getting him alone, even if it's just walking between classes or "hey, could you help me out with one of the problems on the HW assignment" or "could you explain to me how we're supposed to do #7 on the assignment".
Guys are dumb. It takes us a while and we're really scared of rejection.
2007-02-23 09:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by bluejay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are flirting then the first move has already been made. It is now a game of raising the stakes. You just have to show more interest in him until he reaches the point where he wants to ask you out.
2007-02-23 09:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Michael M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting your education is more important than chasing some boy.
His flirting at you won't give you good grades or promise you an independent, secure future or set a career goal for you. Think about what's ahead of you outside of school. I guarantee that boy will not be the one you marry. IF you marry.
2007-02-23 09:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be patient and gradually move into it. You know, be sly about it. Also, make sure that he doesn't have a girlfriend.That could be part of the reason for why he hasn't made the move. If you have been waiting for a while, maybe you should.Hope it all works out.
2007-02-23 09:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by angel9242004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him i think you should forget about him making the first move...you be brave and just take a shot at it. Guys tend to like girls who make that first move, and it shows that you're not affraid to get what you want
Good luck
2007-02-23 09:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by annalezam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same position you are. Guys are confusing and send out weird signals all the time but they never ask you out when you get so sure they will. I say just take it easy and don't get yourself worked up about it and let what happens happen. =]]
2007-02-23 09:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Carlisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey take the risk, you make the first move, go for it. You never know you maybe pleasantly surprised. Maybe he feels how you do. Maybe he doesnt know that you like him as much as you do, he maybe sacred of a lil rejection. So show him otherwise and show him how bold and beautiful you are.
good luck xxx
2007-02-23 09:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of guys flirt without realizing it....I've liked guys and flirted back and thought I was being so obvious...but the guy was clueless. If you really like him, you're gonna have to make the first move. if you arent willing to risk rejection, he might not be worth it after all....
2007-02-23 09:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by ikaphant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
asl him out lol ,,nothing weird =p or else ur going to lose him. and well if u want the relation 2 go well fine and last 4ever, get to know him a lil bit more ^^
2007-02-23 09:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by Hansel Jr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are so trained to respect women that we are told pretty much to never approach them. He needs clear feedback. Grab him by his shirt and kiss him.
2007-02-23 09:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋