i dont have time to go out in find somebody, and if i do find somebody, do i take my daughter with me. or tell the guy all the sad story. he will think that i am looking for a father for my baby, or trying to get somebody to support me. i dont need that so....what do i do when it comes about dating.
2007-02-23 09:14:44 · 8 answers · asked by Viv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, my Sympathies on your situation. But you've got time to find that Your Heart, will tell you when the time is right. You just have to give it time to let you know? and listen for the right person. It'll go thumpity Thump. when Mr. Right walks by. Your Heart won't lie? And your Heart wants you happy. But you have to listen. As far as your Child? If he ain't with her? You ain't with him. And that's the name of that tune!
2007-02-23 09:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't worry about it until you meet a guy you actually want to bring around your daughter ... no need to start stressing over something that hasn't even happened yet ... just go out with friends and family ... be yourself and be patient ... it's going to take time ... when you find a guy things should get easier not more complicated just remember that ... good luck and I'm sorry for your loss ... !
2007-02-23 17:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously don't date yet
your baby needs you at home for a while...its ok to be single
when you feel ready just get a sitter and go out with some girlfriends...have a good time and see if you meet someone
but don't be one of those people that has a baby at home and goes out 3 times a week
2007-02-23 17:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by thuglife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a trusted babysitter.Go to the gym.If you really want to meet someone ,talk to people in your age group.Beleive it or not there are a lot of good men that would not let your child interfere with a relationship.Now get going your ready.Sorry about your loss but glad you are moving on.
Charlie. Drop me a line if you want to talk more.
2007-02-23 17:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
vivian love don't take your baby out with you....... Bad news.... Just be yourself and if you can go out with a guy friend that has no designs on you if you are with a guy and dancing with other men and him dancing with other women you will have a non stop flow of men stopping by your table to ask you to dance don't bring up baby or your heart break just don't mention it later even after the second meeting with a guy you won't need to tell him buit when he comes to the house to pick you up tell him you are a widow and that your little girl is precious and introduce them to each other and foprget about it the bigger you play it up the faster he runs......
2007-02-23 17:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let me extend my condolences; it's tragic that you've lost your husband, especially at such a young age!
My advice, considering you've also got a baby to take care of, is to follow your heart. If you're not ready to date, don't do it! "Thuglife" is right...it's ok to be single. Give yourself time to mourn your loss, and bond with your daughter, before seeking a companion. When you are ready, get to know the guy you're with before you tell him about her. It's always best to know you're into someone, who's into you, before telling them you've got kids.
And above all...don't rush into ANY relationships! Take the time to get to know him (first as a friend) and let the relationship develop itself. Another bit of advice....if your daughter doesn't like him, he's not the one for you. Kids ALWAYS know whose going to take care of Mommy, or not...if she's not herself around him, take the hint.
Good luck! You and your daughter are in my prayers.
2007-02-23 17:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by mj_lee209 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have the time to go out, then you have to look to your friends for sending you some blind dates
2007-02-23 17:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by sexy joker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, If he is mature then he will realize that. If he freaks on you about that he is a moron and you dont need that anyway
2007-02-23 17:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋