There is this guy i like but, i cant talk to him, but i can talk to other guys without a problem!! Why is this and is this hard for others too?
2007-02-23 09:14:26 · 15 answers · asked by Shiro-Chan :D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and tell him how you feel
You only lose if you don't take the chance.
2007-02-23 09:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Purely psychological & you've put him on a pedistal. You like this guy so you automatically think that you've got to approach him differently. You sound like a confident person but for some reason this guy makes you second guess yourself. Don't... It happens to all of us... but just do it. if you hold off any longer you'll put him on such a high pedistal that you'll never reach him. Just remember that he's the lucky one that gets to talk to you. The moment you realize that he's just like any other guy , you'll gain that extra bit of confidence you need to talk to him. Remeber you are the catch and it will bring him down to earth a little more. :) good luck!
2007-02-23 17:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Greekangl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have feeling for him for more than a friend. A lot of people when they get to the point where they like someone they get so shy and their mind freezes. It could be that. Just act like yourself and don't worry about anything. Talk to him the way you talk to other guys.
2007-02-23 17:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by shy_gal2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because obviously you really like this guy.You feel different towards him than other guys that you are around.And it could mean that it's meant for you to be with him.Try finding the nerve to get to know him,you may be surprised on how easy it becomes to talk to him once you get started.But you have to be willing to make the move or you will never know if he's the right one for you.Good luck
2007-02-23 17:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is that you have feelings for him. It will make you nervous talking to him because subconsciously you are afraid you may mess up or say the wrong thing. I is perfectly natural. Talking with others don't bother you because the fears are not there.
2007-02-23 21:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by Deleted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are much more concerned with how this guy thinks of you and what you think are your weaknesses. you want him to like you, whereas with the other guys you don't care as much as to what they think. and yes most everyone has some level concern when dealing with people we want. we are all more self conscious generally in these situations
just remember that we are all human, all have faults, nobody is perfect, and that our mistakes and imperfections are what makes us, us, different from others. celebrate your individuality and he will to. if he can't see it then he may not be the one for you
2007-02-23 17:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by onlinedreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant talk to this guy, because U LIKE HIM... the other guys u probably dont like so it is easier for u to talk to them. but, since u LIKE THIS guy, it is harder because you dont want to say anything stupid or act weird or embarrasses yourself or say the wrong thing. this is also hard for me. i like someone, but i cant talk to him and w/ other guys, i dont have a problem either.
2007-02-23 17:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by RandomGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you care more about what he will think of you and what you say than you do about those other guys. You're afraid of messing up, so you refrain from saying anything, or think to much about what the right thing is to say and trip over your words as you say them, trying to edit them even as you speak them.
2007-02-23 17:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just a normal guy, try to get over any obsessions and approach him as a normal person. He poops just like anyone else.
2007-02-23 17:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we like a person a lot we get a lil nervous around them, its totally norm. we try to be perfect.
2007-02-23 17:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by Shana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋