I have a friend i have been knowing for about 2 years. I asked him if he ever thought about being more than just friends and he said no because he thought i was to young for him. (he is only a year older than me). But im still in love with him and i dont know how to tell him. But the problem is im in a relationship and i love the boy im with. Help me what should I do??????????
2007-02-23 09:11:47 · 16 answers · asked by bestsinga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're curious about this boy in you're life for two years...
I wouldn't go there...don't give him so much attention. Just stick with you're boyfriend.
2007-02-23 09:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering if you are "in love" with either of them. Is this you just want what you don' t have? If you are in love you are in love with just one person! Think this thru before you hurt anyone and/or your relationships with both of the boys. Your mixed emotions could cause you to lose your boyfriend and your friend. Take some time to see what it is that you really want before you make any decisions that could hurt someone else!
2007-02-23 17:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by DC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sort out your feelings. Pros and Cons. Would you really leave the one you love for another one you love. In life, there is not just one soulmate there are several that can be meant for you. You don't know until you pursue. However, is it worth it after he told you he doesn't want to be more than friends. Think about it and appreciate your happiness with you current beau. You may need to limit yourself around this friend. As humans we are all attracted to each other, you have to control yourself and not get in to deep. If you play with fire you WILL get burned.
2007-02-23 17:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How Old R U? The friend you feel you love is just that, A friend you love! Don't mess up your friendship. If you and your other love get along what's the prob? Just stay friends with your friend and if something else is meant to come from it, it will happen but don't push it and screw up every ones life and your friendship.
2007-02-23 17:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Joyce S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the realtionship your in right now with this other guy, Why are you chasing a fantasy you know won't happen?? The friend you been crushing already answered your question "your to young for him"....
2007-02-23 17:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by onlyin2it2enjoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know your age I will assume late teens or maybe 20's. Think which one will be the best partner in good times and bad times. The one that you feel you have to be with. Most of all trust your instinct and your heart.
2007-02-23 17:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Gallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, who do you like better? The choice you make should make you the most happy. But you might want to ask the guy you like for 2 years if he likes you. Than you will have to break up with the other guy. But if you don't ask you might lose you boyfriend.
2007-02-23 17:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sakura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL GURLY, HE OBVIOUSLY IS NOT INTERESTED IN BEING WITH YOU OR JUST DOESNT SEE YOU GUYS TAKING IT THAT FAR... NOT BEING MEAN... BUT DONT WASTE YOU TIME TRYEN TO MAKE HIM LIKE YOU.. TRUST ME IVE BEEN THROUGH THAT... AND DONT LET A GOOD THING GO IF THE OTHER ISNT EVEN GIVING YOU THAT CHANCE. AND IF HE DOES GIVE YOU THAT CHANCE HES JUST DOING IT TO FEEL SORRY FOR YOU AND WILL END UP LEAVING YOU FAST.. SO JUST STICK WITH YOUR MAN.. YOU LOVE HIM ANYWAYS RIGHT??
2007-02-23 17:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by MS. J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has already told you he considers you too young for him. If you truly love your boyfriend you will commit to him and stop hoping your friend might want something more.
2007-02-23 17:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind!!! It's not fair to either guy, & if truth be known your "friend" probably doesn't want to get involved with a girl who he knows will cheat on him !!! Give it some thought!!!
2007-02-23 17:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋