I meet him at a party and I liked him, he liked me, and after we get out of the house, I mean in the garden, and he said 2 me if I want 2 go 2 his apartment and have a little fun in his bed. I left speachless, but I said 2 him that we will see eachother later, and then decide. what do u think I must do ? accept 2 have sex with him ?
2007-02-23 09:10:48 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eep. Well... if you are looking for a real relationship with him... you should get to know him better. Men these days are pretty much out for sex and after they have what they want they leave for the next pretty face that comes along. I suggest you get to know him better. Sex is important and dangerous if you don't know what kinda guy he is. If he knows any of your friends or acquaintances and you sleep with him and that's all that happens he could end up telling everybody about it... thus you'd be labeled, 'Easy.' If you really, really think you wanna do it though, no one is stopping you... I just don't suggest it at all.
2007-02-23 09:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by no 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never give it up that easily. You will regret it. Unless you are just after some fun and a fling. If that is what you want then just make sure you sure protected but if you want something real with this guy then make him wait at least a month or a couple of months for that matter before sleeping with him. No matter what you are the one deciding here. Just please don't make the wrong choice cause he pressured you. Cause I am sure you could do better than some one like that. Good luck!
2007-02-23 09:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like this guy just wanted to get into your pants. I believe you did the right thing. There aren't a lot of girls out there that have self respect anymore, and that is a trait some men still look for. Keep waiting for the right person. If you keep doing what you're doing, it won't be very long before you find him. Good luck!
2007-02-23 09:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by pauldhass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it rather is okay. each little thing is okay in todays liberated international. you're able to remember nonetheless that each and each action has a effect. in case you sleep with him too early then this might provide out the incorrect message. Take it from a lad - all of us like slumbering with females yet no person desires to marry one that has been around the block. If I have been you i might look ahead to a minimum of a month - maybe extra.
2016-11-25 19:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a hoe? if yes do whatever you want and DON'T come crying on yahoo if you think you're pregnant because we won't care!
Don't give it to any guy who walks by you. What is wrong with girls.
have some respect for your body.
you know NOTHING about this guy yet you're going to have sex with him? I'm sorry but there's names for girls that do that and I'm pretty damn sure you don't want to be called those things and get the rep that goes with.
ALSO that guy is NEVER going to call you after he gets what he wants...
think about it- don't be a retarded little hoe just because some guy wants you. I'm sure he wants every girl who looks cute at a party.
2007-02-23 09:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's OK, but there have been lots of studies shown that in GENERAL men do not think a girl who gives it up on a first date is marriage or even dating material. If you want something serious to develop here, I would suggest waiting. It's not to say that something WON'T develop if you do have sex early on, but your chances are better for something real if you wait.
2007-02-23 09:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that was a rude proposal, what a pig.
I have had sex on the first date, before, but it was because I decided to do it!
The woman should ALWAYS be the one to decide when and what to do when it comes to sex. The woman should always be the one to establish the rules for intimacy.
2007-02-23 09:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by August lmagination 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! It's not okay if you want him to respect you and actually see you again! If he's trying to sleep with you the first time he meets you he has no plans on ever seeing you again. You are just sex to him and that is not cool. Forget him and meet someone who wants just more than a booty call.
2007-02-23 09:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think him asking is a sign he likes you.
I would definitely get to know him before having sex with him if I were you. If he is really into you he will keep trying. And on average developing respect for your partner before taking them to bed will make your sex life happier.
Waiting a few days may also keep you from losing respect for yourself, if they turn out to be a real loser.
2007-02-23 09:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by michaelberean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I honestly don't think it's okay because sex is something to be enjoyed when your married... but of course people don't always wait until then. But what happens if he got you pregnant and just left you? Is that somethig you want? You have to ask yourself this qestion. =] just make good choices! And stay outta trouble!
2007-02-23 09:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by Carlisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋