Last summer, I had a summer romance with a guy. We spent the best time of our lives, but then came September and he had to move to another state in order to pursue his studies. We said to each other that we will talk and try to meet to sea each other when ever we have brakes from school. At first we talked to each other every day, he would call and e-mail often and tell me that he missed me. After a couple of months he stopped calling and we only chatted through msn. Now we talked through e-mail once a week and our conversations are just friendly conversations. He does not mention anymore that he misses me or that we should meet. Some of my friends say that it is because he found some other girl? What do you think?
2007-02-23 08:55:49 · 13 answers · asked by Natalia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it could very well be some one else, but it could just be, "out of sight out of mind "so my advice to you is go see him, so he can remember what your summer romance was like, not that he forgot , sometime you just have to get the though proses going again.
2007-02-23 09:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. There's no way of knowing what he's really thinking without asking him, and in my experience that's the best way to figure out what's going on. Maybe he met someone new; perhaps he's genuinely focused on his life at school; maybe he's assuming you've moved on (who initiates contact more often- you or him?). It could be that he's just moving on for the sake of moving on- there's a reason so many love songs are about summer love.
2007-02-23 09:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by TooMuch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are notoriously hard. It's possible he met another girl, or maybe your relationship just lost steam since you haven't seen each other in a while. If you're not officially together then he isn't really doing anything wrong. Maybe he's just busy with his studies. It's always tough with LDRs... I think you should just keep it on friendly terms and maybe if you two are serious about being together, hook up after university. Sounds a longshot, but I don't really see another way.
2007-02-23 09:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the only reason you're still hung up on it is because u aren't seein anyone else u REALLY like. long distance relationships are doomed to fail. if he comes home this summer u two might hook up again but it will all end up the same way. why don't u find a guy who lives near u and accept that the summer fling guy was just a fling.
2007-02-23 09:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was just that...a summer romance. Most long distance relationships fizzle out...unless there are strong romantic attachments.
Oh and it would be BREAKS from school not brakes and
SEE each other, not sea
2007-02-23 09:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just run it's course because of the distance between you. You could ask him if he still wants to meet up. It's entirely possible he's met someone but you won't know unless you ask.
2007-02-23 09:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhh...Where do live? Lala Land? Duh! It's hard to have a "relationship" via e~mail. Get over the "summer romance" and move on. He's obviously getting in someone else's pants by now.
2007-02-23 09:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be dating someone, or not..... unless you know another person that goes to his school, that's probably the only way u will be able to find out. long distance relationships don't usually work out.
2007-02-23 09:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On girlfriend he found someone else.
2007-02-23 09:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jersey girl on Florida. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think he did.
2007-02-23 09:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋