ok hers the story......Im going out with this guy right and i dont knoe if i really love him....and my ex asked me out again and i know i still have feeling for him and i just dont knoe if i love the other guy or do i just like him. but if i break up with him that will be the second time i have broken up with him to leave him to go with the other guy. But he lives far away from me and i dont know if he would cheat on me or not.. what should i do ....go with the one I know that i love or stick with the one that i kneo i can trust??
2007-02-23 08:52:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? If you are under 18, you should be dating lots of guys (translation: this does NOT mean have sex with lots of guys). The only way you can figure out what you like and what you don't is by going out with lots of different types of guys. I don't understand why girls as young as 13 are so interested in finding a partner for life. Get out there, have fun, date around, and it will become apparent to you what kind of guy you like.
As far as your current question goes, go out with the one you want to go out with. Go out with both. There's no rule that says you can only date one guy. If you like them both, go out with both.
2007-02-23 08:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by Texasippi Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you what to do you will do what feels right to you anyway but if you have broken up with this guy twice for some one else then I don't think you deserve him really I think you have a problem with being alond and you are just keeping him around for your own benefit like till something else comes along. I am sorry if I sound harsh I am really not trying to be but I have been in the same situation and I know the confusion just think long and hard about it hun k
2007-02-23 16:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by coco late 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is just my opinion...I think that you should not see either one of them. It sounds to me that you need to find someone new to hang out with that you can both love and trust! There is a big world out there and you are trying to chose between two people like they are the only two people available! Go out and fish for a while and have a great time while you do it! If you cross paths again with either of them handle it at that time,
Goodluck, Rhonda
2007-02-23 17:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Rhonda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the one you can trust but only if you think the relationship has a future, not because he's a better bet than the other one. He is your ex for a reason, you will get over your feelings for him.
2007-02-23 16:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god. First of all, there has to be a reason you aren't dating your ex....you broke up twice right?! You are only remembering good times, not the crap that led you two to break up. Secondly, if you are even thinking of leaving new guy, then it isn't going to work. Your best bet is to get rid of both and look for a new guy.
2007-02-23 16:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by Morty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you left your ex if it because he cheated or you cheated or something like that its better not to go back to that surrounding and try a new guy for a while and if that does not work if your ex really loves you he always be happy to get you back.
2007-02-24 09:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre whacked out. im guessing that you dont love this current guy or you wouldn t be wondering do i, dont i. im thinking that the only reason you want to go back to your ex is b/c he either dumped you(which i think is what happened) or something else happened that left him in control of the relationship. and you say that if you leave this current guy it will be the second time you dumped him for someone else. man that guy is a biatch. i know you wouldnt do that to me. i dont think you love the ex, just that he got away and you still think you' d be better with him. funny how i am as ***'ed up as you. i have a current gf and i still have feelings for my ex and i actually had the chance to get back with her. but you know what, i didnt. why? b/c *** her. she dumped me b/c i got angry that she lied and wouldnt trust her. so when she came around again i chose the current gf. *** that old dude and at least stay with the current punk. at least you know you can treat him like sh't and he'll stay around. i d like to get with you for a while and see if you'd try leavin me for some other dude twice. id beat you both up. better stay with the one you got for now, even if that doesnt work, at least you didnt go running back to your ex. believe me there will always be another guy out there. there's millions of em.
2007-02-23 17:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by maximus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you keep breaking up with the guy there is a reason for that..stick with the nice guy..enjoy your time together....do not rush into anything and do not over think everything!
2007-02-23 17:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tereka Bodika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a very simple solution...do what you really desire to do...matters of the heart are difficult for outsiders to answer for us...but deep down inside we know what would be best, or at least what we want...
if this new guy isnt doin it enough for you that you have to ask..then there is nothing there...and your ex..well we have all played that back and forth game and you know what...it never ever ever ever (can't express it enough) ever works...
hey, you know you dont have to be with someone to be a person...dont date anyone cause you feel like you have to...date because you want to...your not obligated to anyone, other than yourself.
2007-02-23 16:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by boosted 1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to talk to the guy that you are with and see how he feels about you relationship. Because if you have unsure feelings you should include him for his input. I know how you are feeling and I went to the guy that I loved and knew that I did. YOu only live once and you have to make the best of it. Follow your heart. Sit down and have a heart to heart with yourself.
2007-02-23 16:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by meekaluvskeith 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋