Well I've been going out with my bf for 9 months now and we are serious about each other and everything and we have loads of fun when we are together!!! but these past few weeks he hasn't been answering my calls or text i was going to go round to his place but his parents don't actually approve of our relationship so I thought that was a bad idea then i asked one of his mates if he knew anything but he had no clue. A few days ago i saw him and he totally blanked me. What do you think is wrong with him and what shall i do??
2007-02-23 08:50:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't keep trying to get in touch with him. If he's not got the manners to explain why he's blanking you after a nine month relationship he's not worth all that effort. Whatever his problem is, he'll still be expecting you to beg for his attention....why don't you do what he's doing, cut off contact, and go out and have some fun with your mates? Chances are he'll wonder where all the attention's gone and will be surprised to see how easily you're getting on without him. I bet it doesn't take him long to crawl back!
2007-02-23 10:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Les 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's got some issues...I would stop calling and texting, he'll start wondering where you are. However, I don't think I'd give him the time of day even if he does come back....if you've been together 9 months, he owes you a lot more than blanking you!!! Don't worry, it really sounds like he's the one with the problem...it's not your fault!
2007-02-23 09:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkle80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its over, if its been a few weeks it must be.
What a coward though, not having the balls to tell you himself. Stop calling and texting him, maybe ignoring him will annoy him because he wants the attention and he wants you to wonder why he's being such a pri#k. And if he does call you hun, then tell him where to go - after ignoring you for weeks what kind of boyfriend is that ?! Leave him to it, and if you see him out, walk past him and give him a sly dirty look xxx
2007-02-23 08:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tamara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex boyfriend did a similar thing to me, we went on a fantastic holiday with his family had a great time but when we got back he started to act very off with me and after a week of acting very strangely he dumped me. I was absolutely devastated, cried didn't eat etc etc..but picked myself up and moved on. Just after Christmas (so 4 months later) we met up for the first time for a drink, during which he poured his heart out and explained how he'd panicked and he'd been an idiot. We didn't get back together straight away but now we're very much in love and moving in together. I don't know what's wrong with your boyfriend but men have a tendency to not express their feelings very well. Whatever is wrong it may have nothing to do with you. Give him some space, try and get on with your life (see your girls, go partying, spend time with your family - it'll be hard but it gets easier) if its meant to be and he loves you he'll stay with you or come back to you after some time apart. Just let him be for a while...good luck
2007-02-23 09:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear.Sounds like he might have gone off you & can't think of a decent excuse to let you down gently.He's avoiding the issue hoping you take the hint or til his mates help him with an excuse.you're better off with someone else to be honest.
2007-02-23 14:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell this but he likes someone else. That doesn't mean he already HAS someone but try to not call him try to go out or meet someone else. So he will have time to think why you don't searching for him and HE will think maybe YOU have someone. So if you're important for him he will be interest of you again.
Good Luck!
2007-02-23 08:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him, he'll be loving the fact you're texting/calling and will be panicing if you don't contact. Then get yourself all dressed up, out with your mates and go and find someone who actually gives a ****. Good luck!!!
2007-02-23 09:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Little Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose him...find a new man...i would answer your calls/texts if i was your boyfriend.....he sounds like a jerk...if you are an amazing girlfriend, then he shouldn't care what his rents think...
end the relationship for a few days or even weeks----like take a break for awhile
2007-02-23 08:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U might desire to tell him what u sense. in simple terms convey him that U dont like being taken care of how he does. in simple terms tell him U r harm by potential of such behaviour. Dont proceed the realtionship if he beahves a similar way. Its no longer suitable to place the blame on U if anyhting is going incorrect in his existence.U r too candy n thats Y u tolerate him. yet i think of U ought to tell what u fell first. Later u can determine. ultimate of great fortune.
2016-10-16 08:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a waste of space, get in there and dump him first. You will find somebody that genuinely wants to be with you.
2007-02-23 08:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋