It took a long time for me to find a girlfriend and I was so lonely throughout my life. I thought I would be happy when I got one but I'm not. She is still talking to her ex-boyfriend. This hurts a lot. She tells me that he looks as good as when they first met back in high school. She also tells me that he told her that she's too fat and ugly for him. I don't understand why she still talks to him. If someone said that to me, them's fightin' words. Nothing makes sense anymore. I don't have enough time left to just throw 6 months of a relationship away.
2007-02-23 08:47:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she may be in a tough situation. she's probably still hurt if he did say those things. she's most likely feeling insecure. remember to affirm her, tell her that she's beautifulat random times. she probably feels like she needs to change, let her know that she doesn't. and don't make the relationship all about you. if you're in a relationship just to make yourself happy it won't work out. she is a person too. talk about how you feel with her. if she doesn't know how can you expect her to change?
2007-02-23 08:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I don't have enough time left to just throw 6 months of a relationship away." - Are you dying?
Your girlfriend is either too honest with you or wants to get back with her ex. Either way, you two need to sit down and have a heart-to-heart.
I don't know how old you are, but there are really wonderful fish in the sea. I found my most recent one off Yahoo Personals. Perhaps you could give that a try?
2007-02-23 16:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it was funny how you sai them's fightin words....i thought it was at least.
Just tell her that it hurts you when she talks to him. It's a natural thing to be hurt about it. It's called jealousy and everyone has it lol.
Being with someone that doesn't make you happy will just make you feel worse about yourself. Tell her either stop talkin to him or you're gonna leave her. If she continues to talk to him then LEAVE HER! Find yourself someone better than her.
2007-02-23 16:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by dr_mctwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but she sounds like she's got some emotional issues and she will probably only hurt you. Just be a friend to her now
2007-02-23 16:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to start fresh and if she can't understand that then she isnt the one that you have ben waiting for you need to keep look hun dont stop here.
2007-02-23 16:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by kuhilanigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, all in all, u deserve much better. I mean it is obvious from this she still has feelings for her ex. Trust me u deserve much better.
2007-02-23 16:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop talking to her ex....because it hurts you....she will react if you are sensitive....don't yell at her....and if she yells at you just listen to her...and talk real calm...she could have feelings for him....you need to get a new gf...if she can't stop talking to this guy after you tell her to stop....
good luck
2007-02-23 16:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny tell her how you feel don tjust set back and watch her rip your heart out tell her how much you love her and want to be with her and tell her how it makes you feel to hear that she thinks he looks good.
2007-02-23 16:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by sexylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont feel comfortable talk to her and tell her how you feel and if you are still feeling uncomfortable just tell her its too much.
2007-02-23 16:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by mamina3595 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh.. this ones tricky. i might need some more info.
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2007-02-23 16:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by bob m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋