I had been seeing my boyfriend for around 5 months when we went on a break because things weren't working out.However,after a few months,i began to really miss him,even though at first i hadn't missed him at all.I became upset because i missed him and we got back together.We were perfectly happy again for another few months,until one wknd,when he
-went out of his way to try and stop my guy friend from coming to see me,which really upset me,later admitting it was because he was jealous.
-shouted and swore at me,then cut himself with a penknife because he felt bad.
he once smashed his phone off the wall too.apart from this,believe it or not,hes the nicest,sweetest guy you could meet.But he has some real issues.Since this night,i feel like everything is ruined although everyone is telling me to forgive him.He's constantly apolgising and sending gifts.He said he will get anger management.I dont miss him,but the last time i did end up missing him and wanting him back.Please help!
2007-02-23 08:46:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find someone else!!!!
2007-02-23 08:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by 814558 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your b/f or ex what ever he is sounds like he has issues as you know. I would definitely recommend that he go to anger management classes before you consider taking him back if you want him back at all that is. I mean cutting himself and acting crazy all because you were going to hang out with one of your guy friends just isn't right. It is creepy and you don't need to deal with that drama. You are the only one who can truly decide if you want to be with this guy or not. I am sure just about everyone on here will tell you not to be with him cause of his problems or what ever but only you know what is right for you. So now you need to take some time out in my opinion and think about what it is that you truly want. I mean maybe this guy can work through his issues and then maybe the two of you can be happy with no drama but that is up to you in the end. Good luck with what you choose.
2007-02-23 08:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always forgive~never hold resentment in your heart!
As far as what to do~ Run Away Love~Get Away & Do It Fast~Leave that guy be. Nothing good could come of this if he this angry this early on in the relationship. What if he turns his cutting on you? Just think of your safety. Before you start to miss him get out and meet new peoople and or sspend time with friends. Do things to keep yourself occupied.
2007-02-23 08:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by SoySrtaBonita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Apart from this?' Those are major issues not insignificant misunderstandings! What kind of friends would tell you to subject yourself to more of the same? He needs counseling period, he cuts and he is violent. If he gets the help he needs, good for him, he will have learned to treat himself and the next girl right. You need to move on to someone that is sane now, not hoping to get sane with time and counseling.
2007-02-23 08:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Safira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....he does..have issues..he really seems..to luv u alot..and u should be happy....because of that. Alll I know is dont give up on him too fast.....he doesnt wanna mess up ur realationships withhim..he just feels bad..the perfect thing for u to do is..come up to him..and sit down with him and ask him..whats wong.
He loves u so much that he doesnt wanna lose u for anythin..so take my advice.
G00D LucK!
((hope I helped))
♥
2007-02-23 08:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by SGx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want all kind of trouble, maybe even a battered wife, go ahead and hang on to him. He needs to grow up and you cannot help him. He needs a good swift kick in the you know what!!!
2007-02-23 08:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by zeepogee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds 2 me like he needs to shop around for a new gf,, You have a guy friend over to your house and you don't expect him to get mad.........come on sister...... who are u kidding !! he had every right to cuss him out,,, unless you 2 have an open relationship.
2007-02-23 08:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you girl things will never get any better unless he truly does go to anger managment classes in fact things will only get worse if he doesnt go, guys have real anger problems they dont know how to express themselves without hurting the people around them. i would stay away from him if i were you
2007-02-23 08:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by desired1naz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to run fast and do not look back. You can get another man. You can't get another life.
2007-02-23 08:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by fiveninebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 21:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by hardage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still around???? This is why people get killed..RUN YOU DUMB ***!!
-C
2007-02-23 08:50:53 · answer #11 · answered by peraltarelations 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋