i've been dating my gf for about a year now and she told me that i had to choose between her or drugs. and she told her friend and her friend said something to me about it and it made me mad because she was being kind of rude and i don't mind my gf talking to her friend about it i just got mad when her friend said something about it because we're in a relationship and i just don't think that our personal business should be between me her and her friends. cause i find the drug issue more so my problem what do u think? pls help me don't be mean.
2007-02-23 08:45:53 · 5 answers · asked by headbanger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen to you girlfriend and if you rly love her ditch the drugs
2007-02-23 08:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lostfairytale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiance has the same problem with me, he says that I tell my friends everything. The truth is when your having problems with your gf/bf talking to a third person makes it easier to understand the situation better, and the whole friend saying something is sometimes hard to prevent. You should talk to her about that, tell her that you don't like her putting your personal business out their...I also believe that it's bothering you because your embrassed and you know that the path that your going is not right. I also believe that ppl don't mind their gf/bf tell their friends how much they care about the person or how good the person is in bed, but as soon as it's something negative it's a problem....but don't worry about that, get yourself together so your gf can tell her friends about the new and improve man that you have become...good luck...and I shall keep you in my prayers
2007-02-23 08:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was her friends business to be talking to you...unless you and her friends are close.
You're in the right by saying that a relationship consist of you and you're girlfriend. Her friend was trying to do good intentions but, she needs to know where her place is and it's not in you're relationship.
It is up to you and you're girlfriend on dealing with the issue of the drug problem you have and should not be judged by her friends.
Good luck!
2007-02-23 08:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is stressed over a situation she will ask her friends for advice. That's the way it is. Especially if you haven't talked to her about boundaries.
If it bothers her that much that you do drugs (which I can understand) then she should help you quit and if your not willing to you are best off going your seperate ways.
2007-02-23 08:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to get off the drugs - As a deal, tell her to not to tell her friends so many personal things
I know it's hard... but there's always help. Parents, teachers... just ask. You might regret it if you don't... you probably will regret it.
2007-02-23 08:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Nova 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋